Let’s Share The Story Of Our Lives!

To Be Ambitious
I won’t just talk about dreaming of success, no dreams are fulfilled until and unless it’s packed with a plan and a course of action. After all one need to do a lot more than “Hoping” or “Wishing”

Dreaming about “something” is quite comforting isn’t it but…….
When you dream about a goal be very sure that you don’t set unrealistic goals, otherwise it can lead to demotivation and in the end the chances of you quitting will be far more than you excelling.

You Are Never Too Old to Kick start Your Career
I have heard so many people talking about their dreams in a disappointing way. Most of them were old and felt bad that they never could reach the level they had dreamt of. And now they accept it as their destiny and move on with life.

Each one of us has dreams associated with their career, but how many of us have really achieved what they truly desired? Most of us are working just to pay our bills or for the sake of doing something, how many of us are really following our passion?

Be patient with your everyday progress
Don’t fix unrealistic deadlines; it should not be too long or too short. This way you won’t be frustrated in pursuit of the accomplishment of your goals. There are no shortcuts, look around and contemplate how long others took to achieve a level of success which you want to achieve.

Most of all ask yourself a few questions
Do you see yourself doing “a particular thing” for many more years to come? It’s utmost important factor for you to introspect. If you don’t enjoy it and want to do undertake something solely because it’s in demand or it gives you good financial returns then you will never be able to succeed.

Will you stick by your goals even in worst case circumstances?

In today’s time when people are getting fired, put yourself in the worst condition and ask yourself will you stick to your goals in any given condition.

Learn to enjoy criticism
Yeah it sux big time when your hard work gets criticized; but not all criticisms should be side-lined. Sometimes healthy and mindful criticism can help you improve your work, therefore share your work and work on the feedback.

So where does the motivation come from?
Personally speaking all my life I tried to impress my parents then my husband but now when I am a mother the zeal inside me to impress my son is far more. It’s a nice feeling when your kids come to you and say I IDEALIZE the way you have lived your life. And not to forget I visualize my success and for sure it gives you a nice feeling to be an achiever in life. Moreover, I really don’t want an ordinary life!

Are you the one who would love to lazy around?
I remember this lady who once said I always wanted a husband who is rich enough so that i don’t have to do anything. I mean how ridiculous it sounds to be dependent upon anyone? One should always have ambitions that belongs to them only and should work hard towards it. In the end at least you have something of your own which you solely achieved.

Don’t be your worst enemy
You have an ambition but you don’t enough determination to realize your ambition? Sometimes people just desire to become something and never do anything about it. Surely, it will tough if nothing is done about it. Once you take a first step towards your goal, half of your battle is already won.

God has given an equal amount of time to all of us
I often analyze my every day activity and ask myself a few questions. Ask yourself what are your priorities. Mine is to take care of my 10 months old baby, exercise and to write. In order to fulfill all my listed priorities I need to manage my time and divide them in the most productive way. If I don’t manage to do any of my listed things in the most effective way I feel the guilt of being “inefficient” Even if I have to sleep a little less than 6 hours I don’t hesitate to do it. You need to set your priorities right in the right order it’s you who has to decide how to divide your time.

Once upon a time there was a rich King who had four wives.

He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to the finest of
delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to neighboring kingdoms.
However, he feared that one day she would leave him for another.

He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with
him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him get through the
difficult times.

The King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his
wealth and kingdom. However, he did not love the first wife. Although she loved him deeply,
he hardly took notice of her !

One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short. He thought of his luxurious life and
wondered, “I now have four wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.”

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and
showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?”
“No way!”, replied the 4th wife, and she walked away without another word. Her answer cut like a
sharp knife right into his heart.

The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you all my life. Now that I’m dying,
will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!”, replied the 3rd wife. “Life is too good!
When you die, I’m going to remarry!”

His heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, “I have always turned to you for help and you’ve always been there for me.
When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?”

“I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!”, replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave” Her answer struck him like a bolt of lightning, and the King was devastated.

Then a voice called out: “I’ll go with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.”

The King looked up, and there was his first wife. She was very skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect.  Greatly grieved, the King said, “I should have taken  much better care of you when I had the chance!”

In truth, we all have the 4 wives in our lives:

Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in  making it look good,
it will leave us when we die.

Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, it will l all go to others.

Our 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest
they can stay by us is up to the grave.

And our 1st wife is our Soul.  Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.
However, our Soul is the only thing that will follow us wherever we go.

Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us that will follow us to the
throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.

Who Says Women Want Rich Men?
The way Women ponder what Men want in the same way Men contemplate what women want, personally speaking you will never understand in words. You need to be in a relationship to understand what men want. It’s not about getting married to the right person; it’s just matter of reaching to a point where you understand each other’s wants or expectations.

Before you start reading my generalization about what women want, be advised that I can’t speak out for every single woman on earth! I respect and understand the likings or disliking’s of every individual. The core expectations of any relationship whether it’s with your family members, friends or with your partner are love, trust and care. I won’t be talking about these at all!!

Women Look For an Emotional Bond

• Before a woman start a relationship the one factor that attracts her towards the guy is the way she looks around for him. It’s that emotional bond that will keep her coming back to you.
• There are little- little things that you can do to make your woman feel special. Sometimes it’s nice to go on a walk and talk about things that matters to her. It can be anything that interests her, it’s important to be a good listener as well as a good participant. Know about her likings, for example if she is into sports then go ahead and join her over the weekend where you can watch her play. Overall, try to have a conversation where she can open up.
• Surprise her – Pick her up from her office, she would love to see you after a long hectic day.
• Who doesn’t like to be pampered? – Off course the way to men’s heart is through his stomach but why can’t this statement be also true for women. Find out her favorite dish; cook something for her which she specifically loves.  Lighten up the whole place with candles. And this is it! Just wait to see a smile on her face!
• Be well dressed – Who doesn’t appreciate and get attracted towards a well - dressed personality? It doesn’t mean that you have to wear a Armani suit to impress her. Stick to simplicity, it will surely impress her.
• Just Little Expressions – Women love lovely little expressions which are often ignored by men. Talk to her and see what she likes. The key lies in making her feel important and special.
• Connect through her soul – All of us have something in us that just belongs to us and we are too afraid or reluctant to share it with others. Once you reach out to that side of her, she will be all yours.
• Don’t rush into the so called “Intimate Mode”- It’s a common perception that men want more physical intimacy than women, but it’s totally wrong. Women also want intimate moments the way men want. Any relationship requires physical intimacy; the only factor that counts is the commitment and emotional bond between the couples. Always remember you need to have an emotional intimacy before you develop a physical intimacy!
• Respect her dreams – Women are more inclined towards those men who respect their individuality. In today’s life people choose partners based on their profession and earnings. You need to give an equal priority to her career path the way you give to yours. Never criticize her choice of career, encourage her instead. If due to some reason she is struggling in her career, try to inspire her and help her out in her career goals by offering her required assistance.
• Be confident of the way you are – Women don’t fancy overconfident bravado, a complete show off or an arrogant personality. Women respect the individuality of a man and adore confident men. Be humble of your achievements in life and don’t try to be overbearing!

These are just basic suggestions to impress women and make her fall in love with you. Just wait to see how she will yearn for you.

Men Want Healthier Women Over Skeleton Look

What kind of body men like remains a big question among women. You will find so many celebrities undergoing plastic surgery to enhance their looks or to hide their age and even to look slimmer. Needless to say, it’s a dream of every woman to look attractive and be appreciated by her man. Based on my experience I remember this incident with my husband, we were traveling and there was this skinny girl (technically speaking she looked underweight) and my husband said “when will you be like her” I was like woosh give me a break, even if someone pays me million bucks to be like that I will never want to have that skeleton figure. Even after all these years still my husband refers to that girl and teases me! But I don’t give a shit!

Skeleton Look Will Never Be In

According to a worldwide research, most men like healthier women with well-toned body over skinny women. After all, what’s the thing which is so attractive about skinny girls? Their bones thrusting out of their skin or their straight structure with no curves? Men like more of a dignified look with a voluptuous appeal. But one fact you can’t deny is that all men like big melons and big buns.

Men Love Tasteful Beauty Over an artificial look

What do men want? Men like to see how you take care of yourself by keeping yourself fit with a healthy routine and a decent amount of workout regime. Men adore the way you treat yourself. So instead of wasting your time with a layer of makeup, try to focus on having a natural look and exhibit your charming smile to impress men.

Impress Yourself First

It’s a nice feeling to impress your partner, but first you need to take care of yourself to feel good about yourself. Personally speaking, I fear of becoming fat! This drives me to push myself to follow an exercise routine to keep myself fit.

Curvy Girls Have Voluptuous Appeal

It’s nice to see curvy babes in demand rather than skinny women. Most of the famous models have shunned the skinny look and now follow a healthier lifestyle.

Men Will Never Stop lusting for fake boobs

Without a doubt, men lust for Pamela Anderson body and her silicon melons and they will continue to drool over fake boobs. But hold on! Men who want to have a long term relationships will not just go for lustful looks!

Be Confident Of What You Are

Even after all these years the beauty of women is still considered far more important than her inner beauty. You can still flaunt your sexuality no matter of what size you are, your confidence and intelligence can win any man’s heart.

Before you start reading my views about What Men Want, I wanted to make it very clear that this doesn’t imply for every man or woman.

Do men regard Sex to be the most important factor in order to get emotionally attached to the woman? We have read and heard a lot of research outcomes where it’s clearly stated that majority of the men rate their relationship based on their physical intimacy with their partners. On the other hand women consider emotional bonding at a higher level than “Sex”.

Though men also need to be appreciated, cuddled, wanted and emotionally attached. Women regard emotionally intimacy in a different way, they need to share their feelings and need to spend quality time with their partner. Many couples face problems in relationships and remain dissatisfied due to their different perspective towards their desire of feeling loved and secured in a relationship. Relationship issues are inevitable, many couples don’t do much about it and with time the hurt keeps on adding up.

It’s important for every couple to listen to each other and understand the way they want to be loved and cared. Instead of focusing on what you want from your man or woman, first try to eliminate your partner’s loneliness, hurt or emotionally distressed state of mind. Every couple go through relationship problems and it’s vital to seek relationship counseling at the right time. So before it gets too late start your relationship from the scratch and nurture it with patience, love and most importantly care.