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Are you desperately wondering how to ask her on a date?

There are number of questions hovering in your mind like:

• What if she says no to me!

• May be I should wait for some time before making a move on her.

• What if some another guy approaches her. Then won’t it be too late for me.

• What if she just treats me like a friend. Will she be offended?

• All of these doubts and fears just trap your mind and stop you to ask her on a date. Never allow your fear to take over your life. You need to come out of the dilemma and take a step forward. We will help you to boost confidence in yourself instead of entrapping yourself with all the insecurities.

• If you are someone who has a serious personality then your chances are really low!!! Always remember easy going people who know how to have fun have more choices than those people who are just isolated. Studies suggest that guys with good sense of humor have far more chances to get dates.

• Don’t ask her out in front of other people, she may feel uncomfortable. Also, be clear that you genuinely like the girl before you ask her on a date. Don’t date her just because she is hot or popular in your college.

• You should be clear about your feelings for her before you ask her out on a date.
• Make sure that she is single. If she recently broke off with her boy friend then try to figure out whether she is over it or still depressed about her past relationship.

• Never ask your friends to do it for you, no matter how tactful your friends are. Girls really don’t like hearing - Oh hey I have a message for you from (So and so guy) that he would like to date you!!! It obviously shows that the guy don’t have enough confidence to approach the girl directly.

• Whenever you want to approach her choose the right time and the right place makes a whole difference. If the girl is new to you and you don’t know much about her then don’t directly ask her for a date. It certainly requires an extra effort first to know her a bit. Give her a nice compliment but don’t exaggerate! Some girls don’t like to be flattered so better to choose a simple approach. Some girls don’t like “sexy” “hot” labels but others take it as a compliment.

• Just make sure that you don’t offend her by complimenting something which she doesn’t take it in the right spirit. It’s advisable to stick to fine compliments which will surely work. Like you look “stunning” “gorgeous” “beautiful” etc. Guys never use the same boring cheesy lines.

• Talk with her and strike an interesting conversation to make her attracted towards you. Talk about her interests and make sure you act like a gentlemen. Don’t feel nervous in her company if you are stuttering or sweating then it’s a clear sign that you are not comfortable with her.

• If still you think you are not ready to ask her out on a date then invite her for any fun activity with your friends. Dull activities like household stuff shopping should never be considered! Think of more exhilarating activities like enjoying any of her favorite sports. After you have shared enough time and now you think it’s an appropriate time to ask her on a date.

• Now you need to find the right time and the right place to ask her on a date. You can simply say this with a smile “Hey I am going out this weekend on fishing I was wondering if you would like to join me. I am sure you will have lot of fun”

• To avoid any kind of hesitation think of a subject beforehand. If you either of you think that you won’t be comfortable to go on a date together then go for double dating. It actually can relieve some pressure from both of you.

• You can ask her to join you to some party or may be an evening with friends just lounging around would a good idea. Once you are comfortable with her you can ask her.

• “I really liked your company so I was wondering if you want join me for a cup of coffee” It will possibly work. If you are nervous to ask her on a date then don’t be anxious some girls really find it cute.
• The foremost point to consider before asking girls on a date is first to ask yourself that do you think that she is attracted towards you. Be her friend first before approaching her for a date. Once she starts sharing a comfort level with you, it will increase your chances of her saying yes. So guys don’t wait just win her heart and sweep her off her feet!

Do you know how to play the dating game? Meeting someone for the first time gives you a sense of excitement and thrill. People do get conscious of few things before going on a date. Here we are listing few points which will help you to have a fun date.

• Be yourself, never port trait something that you are not. Because sooner or later you wont be able to live with that fake side of yours. Therefore, it’s better to love yourself of what you really are.

• Be confident, if you don’t feel confident of yourself, you will end up looking like a clown. You need to respect yourself first before you expect the other person to respect you. If you think you need to change few things about yourself, go ahead. It’s always a good idea to develop and enhance your personality and learn new things in life. Be a generous person and love will find you.

• If it’s your first date, then always meet them personally, instead of going on a family dinner or going out with friends.

• Don’t pursue too quickly, take time to know each other for sometime. If you will move on too fast then chances are that the other person will run away from you.

• If you are meeting for the first time, pick a public place but not crowded and preferably meet during the day time.

• Be comfortable of your appearance; don’t wear something which you can’t carry it off. Otherwise, you will end up looking conscious of your appearance, which the other person will easily notice! A big NO to mini skirts or sees through outfits for girls and no loud makeup. And guys no leather pants! Be simple, after all simplicity rules.

• Never argue, it’s not necessary that you will get along with someone in the very first few meetings. If you don’t share your opinions on something then it’s advisable to keep that topic out of the conversation. Instead, share your common interests.

• Don’t get too excited, if you haven’t received any call from the other person, then just don’t jump to conclusions, that they didn’t like your company and don’t want to meet you again. Some people get desperate and they end up sending 10 voice mails or text messages.

• Don’t cry over your Ex, empty your emotional luggage of your ex, never share any negative things about you ex, like reason why you broke off, blab blab! Just keep the topic of your ex out of the conversation, as you are moving on in life, so just give importance to the new person in your life.

• Be chivalrous, follow the basic simple gestures of opening of offering her to sit first, helping her take off her coat etc

• Be flexible, if due to some reason the other person wants to change the schedule then be understanding. If you planned to go to some particular place, but later the other person suggests something different. Never refuse.

• Guys should do the honor, on the first date, guys must offer to pay.

• Give compliments, if you liked the dress, or you really adore certain qualities in them, now is the time to tell them. But don’t go overboard on it.

• Be a good listener, always be a good listener, give them a chance to speak too.Otherwise; the whole evening can become quite a boring affair.

• Don’t booze too much – Needless to say, you don’t want to end up like a clown.

• Don’t start looking for faults in the other person. No one is perfect. Don’t have far too many expectations, be realistic.

• Don’t start planning your future together too quickly, like if you want to move out to some other country or when you plan to have kids!

• If it’s too late after dinner, then always ask her if you can drop her home, it’s a nice gesture.

• Make the other person feel comfortable. Guys don’t embarrass the by checking her out from top to bottom.

• Keep the conversation interesting; never share your sad old stories of your life in the first date. Talk about your interests, share fun stories of your last vacation. But don’t just harp about your experiences, you should also ask the other person’s interests.

• Always wear a smile even if you are not enjoying the date, you should not give any negative vibes.

• Never be late, if you get stuck in the traffic or in a meeting, call them and be courteous to apologies for the inconvenience.

• Don’t ask too many personal questions; let the other person share their details themselves.

• Have basic table manners. Guys don’t eat like a pig! And girls don’t be too fussy about counting calories. One day of treat will not kill you!

• Use basic courteous words like thank you, please, your welcome, it goes a long way.

• Be considerate, for example if the other person is a non- smoker then prefers not smoking, or ask them if it’s fine with them.

• If you are meeting for the first time, then prefer meting in the day time for a cup of coffee.

• Never lie about anything, this says it all!

• A little bit of flirting won’t hurt anyone. Did you know that the way to women’s heart is through an interesting conversation? Here I mean sensible women!

• You can try fun activities to share each others interests. If you have gone out on few dates and now you are comfortable in each others company, it’s a great idea to open up in a fun way.

• At last trust your instincts, we can’t list all the dos and don’ts of dating. In certain situations, you need to use your brains too!

My idea of dos and don’ts of dating varies from a person to person. But the above are the basic rules of dating; think about each of them and introduce in your next dating day. It will make a difference in your approach to date. So, don’t just sit back, get rid of loneliness no matter if you had a rough break up or you are still single.

Recently, my friend was talking about her dating experience and like always I was very curious to know! She is the kind of woman who loves to date men and too afraid to commit. Anyway, personally speaking sometimes she goes haywire with her dating spree, there is nothing wrong in dating singles but I personally feel you should be choosy! But at the same time everybody is allowed to have fun in whichever way they want provided they are not hurting anyone.

So, she was sharing her experience about what happened with her. She has been chatting with this guy for a while on some online dating website. After conversing on the phone for over 2 months she felt like meeting him as both of them felt a connection. One fine day the guy expressed his desire to go on a date and as expected my friend said YES! She reached before him and after few minutes the guy came and said Hello I am Sam. She was surprised because he didn’t look like the guy from the online dating profile. It was not that he edited his photo and made himself look like a macho guy!

Actually, he was not at all that guy which she saw in the profile. She hesitated to talk about the picture as she didn’t want to look like a fool who got trapped on a online dating site. She did enjoy a chat with him and had a good evening. I am sure this is not the first case when guys or girls mislead their opposite sex through their online dating profiles. But the point is that why men and women on dating sites don’t want to reveal their true identity. Here I am not talking about those people who waffle to post their pictures because it can be misused. I am referring to those people who are outgoing and want to date multiple people at the same time.

Deception on online dating site is not a new story and it happens in various forms. Mostly people lie on dating sites about their educational background, age, marital status, Income, relationship status, appearance and location. Research suggests that online dating is gaining hype, which is quite evident after you notice online dating search results on Google. The only conclusion which I can reach on this is you should listen to your intuition while communicating on online dating sites. It can be fun to date singles only if you are diligent in your approach. I personally know many people who found their partners through online dating websites.