Unique 101 heart touching birthday wishes

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Much awaited Unique 101 heart touching birthday wishes which are personalized as the qualities and the kind of relationship that I share with my friends/students/relatives/colleagues/seniors etc. I have been blessed to be surrounded by people who treat me right, so on their big Birthday day, I never copy-paste any message from any website. It all comes straight from my heart and every time my friends love the way I pour my heart. I would like to share my messages with you all in order to tickle your brain as to how you can touch your loved one’s heart. After all, the thing that matters the most is how important and loved you make your dear ones feel! I have more than 1000 lovely birthday messages to share with you all. Whenever I will get some spare time, I will keep updating this list.

 

A very Happy Birthday to _____________ In such a short period, you have won everyone’s  HEART. The way you conduct yourself speaks volumes about you. The kind of comfort you have provided to each member of your team is commendable. It’s how you make others feel about themselves counts the most. You empower everyone and bring the best out of each member. Most of all, I can open up to you for anything, you handle any difference of opinion nicely. You are a breath of fresh air for us! Thank you so much for grooming us and always standing by our side ( even when we make mistakes)  Believe me..I am pouring my heart out and I mean every single word 💕

 

A Very Happy Birthday to __________________ You have been my first mentor in GIS. I always get back to you, you are my roots! that’s why I have grown in life professionally and personally. I still remember working with you, how you used to assign so many responsibilities to me🤩 because you trusted me that I can do it! 😊 I have never seen you raise your voice on anyone, how you handle every situation in just a calm way is commendable! You know how to empower people by appreciating them and seeing the best out of them. We don’t work together anymore, still, you have lifted me when I lost faith and strength. The best part is you not only praise me but also share when someone praises me in my absence 🤪🥰. My golden moment in pre-primary was when my display board secured the first position..😍 I still cherish that! Competing with Pre-primary teachers in terms of creativity is a laborious task after all.  Stay happy!

 

A very happy birthday to ______________. Your gracious nature is one of the best attributes that I love the most. You have always been so respectful towards me and that speaks volumes about the beauty that you possess inside out.As they say there is nothing more beautiful than a beauty of a kind soul. 🥰 You carry any outfit in such an elegant way. 😇 😘 love and light to you. Blessed to be surrounded with people like you who brings positivity 👑

 

Hugs her tightly and can see her charming smile too 🥰 I luv youuuu…Whenever u meet, you have a bright smile..you are one of my precious friend with whom I don’t have to think before sharing anything. I can confide in you 💕It all comes naturally because I know I am talking to someone with whom I feel safe ❤️🥰. I find you an extremely dedicated mom and wifey! Hayeeee your love story makes me believe that you never give up on people you love. So don’t give up on meh too😜. Miss our staff room masti time🌟 I have too many lovely memories of my primary group💕

 

A very happy birthday to my boyfriend cum girlfriend 😄 because you have traits of both.. Miss you so much…your hugs and laughter every time we used to meet. You have been my shield, strength and yes my weakness too. 🥰 Admire you as a mother and the sacrifices you made without even giving a second thought to it..😘 We need more women like you who face fears with courage and overcome any challenges in life. I am still your emotional fool friend, I can never be a sherni like you 🦁

 

A very happy birthday to you my sweet and ever-smiling friend _____________. My last-minute dhoti and pagdi arranger for my crazy kisaaan act 🤩 In the staff room, so many times I had your lunch in your absence.. Stealing food is always tastier 😄.. What’s the secret of your charming personality? Whenever I used to meet you in school, you were always like a breath of fresh air.. 💕🥰 I truly love interacting with you and adore your understanding of nature..🙏😊

RAFT writing Sample

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R.A.F.T writing (COVID-19)

The school to the horrible Coronavirus
GIS, Gems International School Palam Vihar,
C 2 block
Palam Vihar
Gurugram
14th May, 2020

Dear Horrible COVID-19
I hope you know about everything you’ve done. killing lives, hurting people, and bringing this lockdown on to our country (India’s first-ever lockdown). I hope your family members are having a good time, enjoying their tour because this is not going to last long. All the students, teachers, health workers, Police departments, and many more people have been affected because of you. How I wish you never came in the first place, that would be so great, I would be able to see all students teachers coming to school with a smile on their face. Not you laughing with your dreadful, stinky mouth. I’m going to take revenge for the things you have done. In the world of schools, it is a crime taking the Children away from school. Now you’re a criminal in my land, I still can talk to my friends like yesterday I spoke to GD Goenka and DPS, but the children aren’t able to talk to their friends they can talk only on the phones or any other device (it affects their eyes a lot). So, what I’m trying to say is that you better go away otherwise you are going to get caught real bad.
Your greatest enemy
The School

Will come out my shell till then hang on

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Set your own pace

Embrace your grace

Your shell is the only place

Where you will find the missing trace

Sooner or later your heartening scars will erase

Just move on at your own pace

Poem - My own shell

Poem – My own shell

Goodbye letters : Pain that healed me ; I am happy to say Goodbye

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Goodbye letters: Pain that healed me: I am happy to say Goodbye

I am happy to say goodbye

 

Legends say

“Women quickly recognizes the eyes of the loved ones”

“The touch of the loved ones is immediately recognized”

“The commitment of the loved ones is instantly believed”

But there was one woman who could not foresee the intentions of the devil entering in her life. The storm is still swirling around her and it’s the worst storm she has ever encountered in her life. The storm that lasted for 12 long years and still haunts her day and night. As they say, there is a karmic connection that was fated to meet and collide and trap the innocent heart with wicked lies.

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

She used to live in such a relaxed life and never believed in the presence of evil forces in this cruel world. She believed in fairy tales and she was always comforted by her family. She could never surmise the wickedness in people she would meet, blame it on her conservative nature as she always maintained distance from everybody around her. She was too shy to open up to anyone. The only dream she ever had was to have a family and be the best mother. But all dreams are not meant to be fulfilled. Some dreams are shattered and then you embrace the bitter reality of LIFE. Life will break you and then make you, yes make you a stronger person.

This is not a story of any woman who gave up, this is a tale of a woman who displayed faith in the devil for years. But unlike any other millions of women out there, now she is on her own and is proud of what she did and what she didn’t.

The pain that healed me! Some pain makes you strong some pain makes you weak. Before I share the story of my life I want to thank god for putting me through all this, I never knew how strong I can be. Life taught me a lot. I had my share of sorrow where my eyes would be numb as they moaned for the loss of a dream to have a family. A marriage that the society imposed on her, it was not the family that she once dreamed of.

 

Goodbye letter

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

When god keeps giving a signal to walk out of a dead marriage, What do we married women do? Shockingly and hopelessly, we still don’t walk out, we still hang on to the cruelty of the man who doesn’t deserve you and the family that you have nested for him

 

One of those thousands days that still haunts me every day.

The devil took away my son to his parents’ place in Calcutta, days passed by but he never returned.

By each passing day, I was waiting for my son to return. Every night I writhed myself to sleep, moaning my son’s name. Whenever I would ask the devil – When will I get to see my son? He would make implausible excuses to deepen the pain of being away from my son. The devil who was just a sperm donor and he wouldn’t understand the mother’s pain, who has single handed NURTURED her son day and night.

The mother’s heart was tired of waiting but the devil showed no mercy. When the endurance inside me gave up I rushed to the airport, I never anticipated the consequences of embarking towards a totally new city Calcutta. The devil rebuffed all my calls when I told her that I am coming to take my son. The devil was more apprehensive about the expense that I would incur on the tickets to go to Calcutta. Anyhow, I reached the Calcutta airport at 2.30 am and he reluctantly came to pick me up with my son.

He refused to even look at me to even say “Hi”. I wondered “Was he guilty of putting me through all this? ” or “Was he showing his toughness that I don’t give a shit about your presence?”. I grabbed my son into my arms with a sigh of relief and then he took me to a guest house, where he dumped me with my son. He didn’t even enter the room of the guest house and said I am going. He just left in seconds, and I glanced at the room thinking he must be lurking around and he will be back after getting some dinner for me. But he never returned that night, he went to his parents’ house while I and my son were in the guest house hoping just assuming he will pacify me but then I contemplated and realized that he will not realize his misdeeds.

I was in total disbelief that I am in a new city and my so-called legal husband dumped me in the guest house. I was living half dead woman who could not muster up strength and cried like a baby who was left on a lonely dark street by her own parents. I was tormented but somehow I made my son lie down while still struggling to give a fake smile to show as if everything was fine. After my son went to sleep, I felt as if I was locked in a suitcase hoping someone will come and rescue me. I couldn’t sleep the whole night, I was in trauma and literally I pinched myself wondering ” Is it a bad dream? or what?

Next morning, I had no penny to return back, I fumbled a few notes but it was not enough to even for a train ticket. I was dependent on the devil so I called him to book the ticket to go to Gurgaon, but I was instantly asked one question “Where are the property papers of the house that we mutually own?” The house that my father bought.

For days and days, he asked the same question and never stayed at the guest house. I was feeling like a second woman who is dumped in a room to be harassed so that he can extract whatever he can in the given situation. The guest house staff used to look down upon me as a second woman. I called his parents every day expecting they can instill some humanity in their son, but they never picked up the phone. It was not surprising because all the harassment ideas were coming from them. He kept insisting on that you book your own tickets as I will not pay the money for your ticket, knowing I don’t have the money and I will not share the misery with my aged parents.

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

I thought of contacting the police station but then I was perturbed about the aftermath of getting into a police complaint. We all know how the legal constitution work and how much it gets dragged. I didn’t want to take more leaves and desperately wanted to resume the job back in Gurgaon. I started having severe pain in my breast which when shared with him, he happily ridiculed the pain I was experiencing. He dismissed it by saying give the property paper and get the ticket in return. He forced me to call my parents to get the guest house money which I did. One fine morning I mustered up the strength to run away from the guest house with my son. I packed the breakfast which we received in the morning and asked for more, thinking what if I would lose whatever little money I have, then what will I give to my son. I whimpered silently and all my childhood days memories were flashing in front of me of how I was raised by my parents, how we cared for each other.

I was howling all through the time and was still in disbelief that how he abandoned a girl who picked him up from nothing and supported him all through his miseries. Who was dragging a dead relationship even after knowing the bitter reality that he was just a husband on paper? Who hid all his misgivings and pretended to the whole world that he is a nice man.

I had no money with me, I thought of trying my luck to ask if the ticket that he booked I can get the details from the station only. He messaged me where I am?  and to his disbelief, I said at the railway station. I told him I will call my parents and will share everything and then he made an excuse that couldn’t afford the expense of the guest house so he said its better if you leave and he sent his parents to give the ticket. Later, the ticket dealer called him saying you need to accompany your family because you showed your id proof.

 

Thank god that I showed the courage to come to the station and threaten him that I will call my parents and disclose what all you put me through for so many days. Like any other Indian woman, I returned home and served him food. I still can’t believe how forgiving I had been for so many years. But today when I look back I have mixed feeling of never giving up to save the marriage for my son but then I found enough strength and sense to realize my worth. Most importantly, I don’t need a sperm donor father tag, you don’t become a DNA father. You become a father by being around and nurturing your child.

 

I so wish I had the audacity to call my parents to rescue me because the pain of being dumped and betrayed is so fresh in my heart, no forgiveness can heal that. Every night I could barely open my eyes with all the harassment that man has caused me. Every day my eyes would get tired and the layers of never-ending tears never stopped flowing. I would shrink my body with a closed fist and would feel like going under the bed as if I was surrounded by monsters around me who were laughing at my situation.

 

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

Never look back Long pending goodbye letter

 

Being beaten to death would have been less painful than reliving the days that I encountered for 12 years. I completely lost my self-worth. I felt like a worthless piece of furniture. Like people say your body learns to heal itself, that’s what has been happening. The process of healing started when I realized my worth and the kind of woman I am. I value my existence and the strength comes from the fact that I will not give the power to the monster to be the decider of how I shape my life. It’s so true when people say “Whatever happens, happens for good” I thank god that I had the courage to lead a happy and fulfilling life.

Sample goodbye letter

Last day of closure I will always remember 

 

This woman even pays the taxi money to her parents. ( Devil says ” My Honour ! I the devil will not even mention the monthly financial support that I have been providing to my parents which my legal wife never objected. In fact, once she even suggested to give more to them” But MY honour ” I object to Rs 500 she gives to her parents for taxi” And please don’t forget to mention that the parents come to take care of my son whenever he falls sick because My lord I am just a sperm donor father and never took responsibility of being available to the family at the time of need.

This women pays back the money which her parents spent on the house which they gifted us. ( My Lord ! I happily accept Dowry but never make it looks like a dowry! Why the hell the daughter objected to the house gifted to her at the time of marriage)

This woman don’t let me sleep and knocks the door at 5 am in the morning. ( 4 days in 4 months when I come to get a visa) As it was the room adjacent to the bathroom which is required in the morning in order to get ready for office and make my son get ready for school. My HONOUR I refuse to even open the door 4 times in 4 months even if my son misses his school. I am not bothered even if my legal wife would get scolding in the office. I am not here to make their life easier. I am here to get the visa so that I can again fly back and live a bachelor life.

On these ground, I choose to apply for mutual consent.

She is not a widow

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She is not a widow.

She is someone who knows what she wants and what SHE DOES NOT want.

Lessons of life are your best teachers. And only you can change your life ONLY YOU.

Fight for your family well being, fight for your self esteem and fight for justice.

It’s fine to cry but do wipe your tears and smile:)

YOU ARE ENOUGH