What Are The Factors That Dominate Our Mind?

Dated: 14 Aug 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: psychology
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om - peace of mind

  • I have been quite ocuppied with some or the other things happening around me. Therefore, I have not been able to write.. not that I cudnt take out some time to write .. but I just didnt feel like writing anything. And I am not one of those who just write just for the sake of updating the blog..
    Too many things are happening ..
    From now onwards, I will try to update the blog every day or atleast every alternative days..
    Today I was talking to hubby about how our lives change with time.. and how we change as an individual.. AND sometimes how we underestimate our abilities and feel scared of attempting something fearing we will fail or are not capable of achieving “our goals”.
    I have been feeling quite strange about myself.. how I perceive myself in my own eyes.. Some people work towards proving themselves to others.. but now I feel an immense desire to prove certain “things” to myself.. I am not sure If I am able to convey my thoughts across to you..
    Isn’t it interesting to know on how our mind works?
    What factors dominate our mind in our way of thinking?

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In Your Life - Have You Ever Seen “Fuck You Money”

Dated: 29 Jun 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: psychology
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fuck you money

One fine day I got a mail from one of my old friends saying he won a lottery ! I was so overwhelmed but I didn’t quite believe him first. But later some of my friends told me he actually won the lottery! If I was at his place I wouldn’t have just written a simple mail saying Oh I won a lottery.

  • The most apt wordings would be “Hey Listen I have won FUCK YOU money” I told this incident to some of my friends and they were like “oh if I ever win a lottery I will shit on my boss’s face” hahahah Each friend of mine talked about someone they so hate but unfortunately they have to deal with them for the sake of money.

  • You will find innumerable people who tolerate so much shit from their bosses, management, clients etc… because of MONEY! All of us have some or the other kind of responsibilities because of which we have to tolerate shit from other people. I am sure 90percent of the people hate their bosses but can’t really do anything about it.

  • Some time back we friends were watching football and were talking about the most beautiful cribs of some of the celebrities. My personal favorite was Baby Face’s MTV Cribs !!!! Everybody was like oh it so good to be rich! I was like yeah yeah!
  • BOW BOW Show me some fuck you money!

  • FUCK YOU MONEY is all about having the freedom to speak up your mind and to do what you really love to do


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I Have Been Busy With My Addictions - What about you?

Dated: 14 Jan 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: psychology
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I Am So Obsessed – Something I Can’t Live Without

  • Every single day, this increasingly addiction is making me go crazy. I don’t find anything wrong in it. I mean if you are someone like me who loves to explore new things then obviously you will become addicted to internet . Without any doubt - Internet comes in the top five things I can’t live without. I know the kind of things that are popping up in your mind. What about my family and friends.. WAKE UP! They are not things. ( I am just clearing it because on many social networking sites people usually include their friends and family under the category of “things” they can’t live without?? Isn’t it Silly? )

  • Alright folks back to the point that I wanna discuss today. Every day I am feeling guilty of spending too much time on internet reading things that interest me. I am finding it hard to control myself and I am unable to divert my mind. Who to blame? I mean come on what’s wrong in surfing things that not only quest your intellectual thirst but also help you to learn loads of new things. The kind of platform Google offers is extremely fascinating for all those people who just love to read and write. There are innumerable things which are yet to be explored- And I want to know it all. I know I know it’s impossible to know everything.

  • Whenever I don’t have access to internet I go crazy like a maniac bull! Surfing is an integral part of my daily life. I am spending far too much time on internet. I switch on to one website then from that website I land to another website and it leads me to a yet another website . Jesus! It’s taking all my time. Are you also one of those millions people who are addicted to internet? Don’t worry you have company of millions and millions of people who feel exactly like you.

  • Every day I say to myself that I will surf internet for a limited time. But then it’s me!!!!!! “addicted to internet ”. My addiction is resulting into many other things that I feel guilty about. First of all, I am not getting enough time to write, not spending quality time with hubby, my eyes pain a lot (scared of wearing specs) and I have started munching junk food all the time. I know this “Emotional Eating ” Sux! I am innocent - I am helpless!!!

  • Internet has provided an overwhelming platform to access any kind of information you want to read. But sometimes what we end up doing is before we instill one set of information - we tend to switch over to something different. As a result we are not grasping the complete info to the fullest. It is just because of one reason that “you feel like grasping everything in a short period of time” I know I am greedy! It’s alright to be greedy when it comes to learning new things. But we should give enough time to ourselves to nourish our intellectual thirst. I know we are overloaded with so much info on internet that we feel like becoming master of all traits.

  • Therefore, when you face this kind of situation it becomes essential to realize that we need to know how to devote our time wisely. In order to have a win-win situation we need to realize that other things in life are also important. I guess I need to focus on “Time Management ” (As if Anger Management was not enough for me;) Anyway, I have been planning to learn Italian language for a long time, but not finding enough time. I will again try to plan my day sensibly!

Good luck!HIGH 5 to all of you who are also addicted to internet. Let’s try to tackle this issue!


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The Law Of Attraction Is An Empowering Concept….. But

Dated: 23 Dec 2008
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: psychology
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concept of law of attraction

• The law of attraction suggests that every individual has the power and the ability to transform their life. It’s related to your conscious and unconscious state of mind that leads to what you get in your life. Basically, if you truly desire something and have a strong belief in it you will definitely achieve it sooner or later.

• The philosophy states that your emotions and thoughts have a strong power to direct the energy within you to control certain aspects of your life.

Your conscious and unconscious thoughts decides –

1. Know what you want.
2. Ask the universe for it by visualizing it in your mind the exact picture of it.
3. Feel and behave as if the object of your dream is on its way that will help you to making it a real picture instead of just keeping it as your dream.
4. Be open to receive it.

• I personally believe that The Law of Attraction is directly linked to Positive Thinking. It empowers a terrific energy in all of us to believe in our vision. The world we live in derive energy from you through your thoughts and beliefs. As a result it materializes our vision into reality by fulfilling our desires and wants.

• Do you believe that there is a magnificent power within all of us? I have a strong belief that every individual has a magnetic power to transform life. Yes you can improve your life by channeling your inner energy towards what you really want out of life.

• Needless to say, there are hundreds of scientific criticisms of The Law Of Attraction. In the next post I want to discuss about my explanation against The Theory Of Law Of Attraction

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Why Do Guys Hate To Loose From Girls?

Dated: 19 Dec 2008
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: psychology
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girls vs guys

• Let’s face facts here, guys find it hard to accept any kind of defeat from girls. Basically, guys consider sports to be their kingdom and when they find girls to be a part of their kingdom it hurts their ego badly.

• Why do guys think that they are invincible when it comes to Girls Vs Guys. I know lot of guys who think that guys dominate girls in sports.

• I personally love playing badminton and I take it very seriously! Whenever I play badminton against guys and take points from them. I notice guys passing comments at my apposition group saying “oh a girl is taking points from you shame on you” Or “A chick beat you” The intension behind this is simple that it’s degrading for guys to loose from girls.

• I do accept the fact that guys participate more in sports than girls. The place I play badminton you will hardly find 3-4 girls compared to over 40 guys. But whatever the statistics suggest, still you will find some female competitors who have what it takes to make their presence felt.

• Needless to say, guys hate it when they see girls overpowering them in sports. Why do guys think that girls are not competitive enough to be taken seriously? Why a guy find it hard to believe when they get defeated by a girl.

• The kind of perception towards any game shouldn’t be categorized based on the gender. Why it’s hard for guys to take girls seriously? The only factor that appeals to me is the challenge posed by the competitor.

• Irrespective of the gender, I enjoy playing with anybody no matter it’s a male or female, younger to me or elder to me. I have no qualms in saying that the majority of the guys are stereotypes and they are not willing to give respect and credit to female competitors who have what it takes to pose competition.

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