The Never Ending Race Of Acquiring Material Possessions

Posted by: Pooja.Brahmi  :  Category: psychology

Whenever I notice my friends chatting about the latest mobile models in the market I wonder what’s so cool about possessing the latest mobile model? Is it about acquiring something which is a need or is it really about flaunting one’s ill- conceived misconception. Everyone, should remember that Money Shouts and wealth Whispers. I guess acquisition of a materialistic possession makes you noticeable in the society but does it brings happiness or acceptance in the society? I believe possessing something for the sake of showing off looks ridiculous.

I remember this incident which one of my friend was narrating it to me. He went to meet his school friend after over 10 years, and he was carrying this phone which he bought over 6 years back ( in just 1,100 Rs). So after noticing this outdated – unfashionable – out of style mobile phone – he commented “Oh man how would I introduce you to my friends” ( or bunch of fuc*ing cockroaches). Look at this cheapest mobile model you are carrying!!

Why people are more inclined towards acquiring materialistic possession than adapting a simple living . It’s this growing fixation for something which is adding no value to your mental peace of mind . No doubt, mobiles do have a functional value to it. But being possessed about buying the latest mobile model after every few days is absurd.

It is precisely the race to match to the standards of the society in which you live in. The false belief of feeling happy after owning an expensive “thing” is a never ending process of spending money on worthless “things” .

You will be surprised to know that the connection between your happiness and acquiring an expensive product has no connection with each other. Have you ever comprehended the concealed fact that for how long that happiness within you lasts?

Once you introspect and tell yourself that It’s “ONLY YOU” who has the power to make yourself happy; you will realize that these materialistic things won’t attract you anymore.

The issues within you will always be there until and unless you address it. One of the core aspects of leading a fulfilling life is your self esteem. If your self esteem is high then you can go out and win over the world in any given circumstances.

Try to focus on yourself and see the change within you.

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What Are The Factors That Dominate Our Mind?

Posted by: Pooja.Brahmi  :  Category: psychology

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  • I have been quite ocuppied with some or the other things happening around me. Therefore, I have not been able to write.. not that I cudnt take out some time to write .. but I just didnt feel like writing anything. And I am not one of those who just write just for the sake of updating the blog..
    Too many things are happening ..
    From now onwards, I will try to update the blog every day or atleast every alternative days..
    Today I was talking to hubby about how our lives change with time.. and how we change as an individual.. AND sometimes how we underestimate our abilities and feel scared of attempting something fearing we will fail or are not capable of achieving “our goals”.
    I have been feeling quite strange about myself.. how I perceive myself in my own eyes.. Some people work towards proving themselves to others.. but now I feel an immense desire to prove certain “things” to myself.. I am not sure If I am able to convey my thoughts across to you..
    Isn’t it interesting to know on how our mind works?
    What factors dominate our mind in our way of thinking?

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In Your Life – Have You Ever Seen “Fuck You Money”

Posted by: Pooja.Brahmi  :  Category: psychology

fuck you money

One fine day I got a mail from one of my old friends saying he won a lottery ! I was so overwhelmed but I didn’t quite believe him first. But later some of my friends told me he actually won the lottery! If I was at his place I wouldn’t have just written a simple mail saying Oh I won a lottery.

  • The most apt wordings would be “Hey Listen I have won FUCK YOU money” I told this incident to some of my friends and they were like “oh if I ever win a lottery I will shit on my boss’s face” hahahah Each friend of mine talked about someone they so hate but unfortunately they have to deal with them for the sake of money.

  • You will find innumerable people who tolerate so much shit from their bosses, management, clients etc… because of MONEY! All of us have some or the other kind of responsibilities because of which we have to tolerate shit from other people. I am sure 90percent of the people hate their bosses but can’t really do anything about it.

  • Some time back we friends were watching football and were talking about the most beautiful cribs of some of the celebrities. My personal favorite was Baby Face’s MTV Cribs !!!! Everybody was like oh it so good to be rich! I was like yeah yeah!
  • BOW BOW Show me some fuck you money!

  • FUCK YOU MONEY is all about having the freedom to speak up your mind and to do what you really love to do


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