Lessons Learned In Life
I never ever thought that my one year old son can teach me valuable lessons of life. Yes it’s true! Who could ever though that the lessons of life can come from a little boy who has not even learned to talk.

beautiful baby boy

What I Need To Learn From My 1 Year Old Son

You can only apprehend the true meaning of love when you experience motherhood. Moreover, your highest level of endurance can only be tested when you deliver your baby. This is exactly what happened to me!

Every single day I am reliving my childhood doing silly things just to see my son laugh. And my Little master make everyone smile and laugh around him. I Guess nobody can be as carefree and happy as babies are!

Each one of us must have thought to themselves the key to be happier and empower ways to be successful in life.

The Way He Greets People

Whenever he looks around and observe someone looking at him he passes a smile. And then the other person tend to have a bright smile on their face.


He Is A Drama Master

When he wants something he becomes adamant to get it under any circumstances! There are times when there is something that is delicate or can hurt him; so during that time we try to divert his mind and give any other stuff. Initially, he doesn’t want to settle down but then within few minutes he starts enjoying “the new” thing.

I wonder can I learn something from him on how to be happy and be appreciative with what you have?

How He Forgets that…

Once in a while when he is being demanding I have to say No! And then he becomes silent and upset for few minutes and then comes back again in his usual self! He is getting naughtier day by day!

I wish I have the ability to forget and forgive people who upsets me!

His Range Of Changing Moods

Once in a while he gets moody and need my total attention; when he doesn’t get my attention he makes innocent faces towards me! I know how I used to fight with my husband whenever I thought I was not getting enough compassion. Now I have learned the art from my son on how to get attention with “just a look” that can say it all !

Smile Does Increase Your Face Value

The research suggests, on an average baby smiles more than 400 times a day. Woohoo!

No wonder why babies have lovely looks and the charming skin! So now you don’t need any beauty enhancement treatments just Smile.

How Silly and Little Objects Can Entertain Him

He loves playing with kitchen utensils, brooms and any other household thing. He brings a sense of joy and fun to any item of the house. I have literally stopped bringing toys for him now.  Won’t it be amazing if we find joy in doing little things; instead of running after materialist things.

Do share your observations on how you can actually live happier if you start thinking like a baby! Talk to that little baby inside you.

I myself have experienced various ups and downs in my life; during those times you tend to rummage for someone with whom you can share your insecurities and negativity. Who can be a better person to understand you than your “life partner”?

LOVE COUPLE

Have you discovered someone with whom you can share your darkest side and in return you are quite destined that you won’t be misjudged by your partner. The sad reality of our society is that not many people marry the right person, typically most of the marriages end in “Divorce” You won’t be stunned to see the figures doubling in the next coming years.

Basically, what’s the reason – Why do relationships fail? Do we rush into commitments or we get captivated towards an outer beauty more than inner beauty of the person.

Before you chose to get married with the right person, you need to apprehend the true meaning of “institution of marriage” The main decision lies in choosing the right person who knows how to honor relationships.

Relationships Are Made In Heaven But Are Developed On Earth

God may bless you with a partner that you have dreamed of, but you need to work on the relationship. When you experience struggling times in a relationship you need to accept it as an opportunity to understand your partner and work as a team in the relationship. Each one of us are going through challenging times in our day to day life i.e career struggle or financial problems.

It’s natural to behave differently when you are going through tough times. This is when your partner should realize the outside hindering factors that are disturbing you. If your partner realizes the reason of your depressing state of mind and can be your friend with whom you can talk to; then nothing can be more fulfilling then that!

You need to accept the challenges of life, because this is called “LIVING” And when you have an understanding partner who shares your life in any kind of circumstances then you can surely excel in life.

So now you know how to know whether you have the right person in your life or not.

There are millions of religions and when asked about the question of “The Existence Of God” each individual will claim their own theory. At the same time every person has the right to hold his/her own opinion and beliefs “in favor” or “against” the “Existence Of God” It’s their mere choice and judgment of ones own theory.

I have done bit of research in trying to find out a logical theory that proves “the existence of god”. There has been several theories that have been coming to the limelight, but not even single theory have enough proves that something existed in the past.

How we start believing in god

Every individual is always asked and guided by the family to believe in god from the very beginning. All over the world the acceptance of god has been practiced because of the fact that their ancestors have been following some or the other “kind” of god.

It’s the safest way out to follow the same theory that has been practiced for years. And not many people question the stories which they get to hear from their ancestors.

Needless to say, not every individual acknowledge the existence of god. And those people who come forward to put their opinions forward either get criticized or be thrown from their community. Any kind of religious debates turn into Religious communal riots. Christians believe that their god “Jesus” is the only savior of this world. On the other hand, Muslims have indisputable faith in their Qur’an and Jews have strongly opposed any other religion except their own!!!

The only conclusion I can derive from my study is – If you follow any particular religion and have strong faith in it then follow it wholeheartedly. But never criticize any other religion. Because nobody on this earth can prove that god existed.

The documentary that made me think is Bill Maher’s Religulous Documentary

Some inspiring words that my hubby’s grandfather told him, words that are simple yet influential. He shared his story of life – his mistakes, his regrets and a lot more. He said whatever mistakes I made just don’t make those mistakes. It’s certain that you will have your share of mistakes based on your life experiences. This made me think on what kind of approach we have towards our lives and how crucial it’s to realize certain important aspects.

Today after a long time I felt a “zeal” to write something about how each one of us are leading our lives and how many of us are focussed. How the most influential people have achieved success and attained their goals. How one human being is more focussed than another? The philosophy behind all this is far complicated than it looks like.

The only place in your body that help you attain your goals is your mind. When you lead your life there are many distractions and obstacles that can divert your path from your goals. But if you have control within your mind you will become more determined to achieve your goal and be focussed in life.

Your mind dictates your day to day activity on how you react to certain situations in life. Take charge of your mind with a positive outlook, fear of a failure and  negative thoughts are bound to come but once you exercise control on your mind and work hard towards your goals your life will be transformed in a good way.
Look for inspiring figures; read the biographies of influential people you will learn something from their struggle in life. Now is the time when you can unleash your true potential and realize of what you are capable of attaining in life. 

How We disregard Our Inner self

On the other hand, have you ever wondered how People tend to work on their outer appearance more than their inner soul. Majority of us are willing to do anything that it takes to look attractive but how many of us hear their inner voice. Little do we know that the only place that can help you to lead a fulfilling life is when you discover your mind power?
Well Well Well today Ask yourself a few questions if you want something more from your life. Do you have control on your mind and your thought process?

Whenever I notice my friends chatting about the latest mobile models in the market I wonder what’s so cool about possessing the latest mobile model? Is it about acquiring something which is a need or is it really about flaunting one’s ill- conceived misconception. Everyone, should remember that Money Shouts and wealth Whispers. I guess acquisition of a materialistic possession makes you noticeable in the society but does it brings happiness or acceptance in the society? I believe possessing something for the sake of showing off looks ridiculous.

I remember this incident which one of my friend was narrating it to me. He went to meet his school friend after over 10 years, and he was carrying this phone which he bought over 6 years back ( in just 1,100 Rs). So after noticing this outdated – unfashionable – out of style mobile phone – he commented “Oh man how would I introduce you to my friends” ( or bunch of fuc*ing cockroaches). Look at this cheapest mobile model you are carrying!!

Why people are more inclined towards acquiring materialistic possession than adapting a simple living . It’s this growing fixation for something which is adding no value to your mental peace of mind . No doubt, mobiles do have a functional value to it. But being possessed about buying the latest mobile model after every few days is absurd.

It is precisely the race to match to the standards of the society in which you live in. The false belief of feeling happy after owning an expensive “thing” is a never ending process of spending money on worthless “things” .

You will be surprised to know that the connection between your happiness and acquiring an expensive product has no connection with each other. Have you ever comprehended the concealed fact that for how long that happiness within you lasts?

Once you introspect and tell yourself that It’s “ONLY YOU” who has the power to make yourself happy; you will realize that these materialistic things won’t attract you anymore.

The issues within you will always be there until and unless you address it. One of the core aspects of leading a fulfilling life is your self esteem. If your self esteem is high then you can go out and win over the world in any given circumstances.

Try to focus on yourself and see the change within you.