A Love Story

Dated: 31 Jan 2010
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: Relationships
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I don’t really bother to read love stories, but today I had some free time in hand so came across this lovely love story that will touch your heart

A girl in love asked her boyfriend..

Girl: Tell me… who do you love most in this world?

Boy: You, of course!

Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?

Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intensly in her eyes and
said, "You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw that
Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam’s rib and
created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only
when you find the woman of your life; you’ll no longer feel the
lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.
However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy
schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems…
their life became mundane. All the challenges posed by the harsh
realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each
other…

The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more
heated.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house…. At the
opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don’t love me!" The boy
hated her hildishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a
mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while…. He
regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you
can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things
and was determined in breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I’m really not your missing rib, please
let me go…..

She continued, "It is less painful this way…let us go on our separate
ways and search for our own partners…"

Five years went by…. He never remarried but he had tried to find out
about her life indirectly…… She had left the country and back….
She had married a foreigner and divorced….. He felt anguished that
she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the
lingering ache in his heart. He couldn’t bring himself to admit that
he was missing her.

One day, they finally met…. At the airport, a place where there were
many reunions and good-byes…. He was going away on a business trip.
She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating
them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy): How are you?

Girl): I’m fine. How about you… Have you found your missing rib?

Boy): No.

Girl): I’ll be flying to New York in the next flight.

Boy): I’ll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back…
You know my number… Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye.. "Good-bye." One
week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York. In
the event that shocked the world.. Midnight…..

Once again, he lit his cigarette….. And like before,he felt the
lingering ache in
his heart…. He finally knew, she was the missing rib that he had
carelessly broken.

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury….. Most often
than not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental…. We went
our frustrations 99% at our loved ones…. And even though we know
that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it’s often easier said
than done.

Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us
treasure every
moment and everyone in our lives. Tomorrow may never come; give and
accept what you have today………

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It’s All about Betrayals and Lies

Dated: 31 Jan 2010
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: Relationships
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Why men cheat ?” Nobody can figure

So I get to know one more incident of a celebrity cheating on his wife. Great Great !

After witnessing Ronnie Wood romancing with his daughter’s age girl, then Tiger woods admitting to infidelity . And now the media has recently discovered John Terry’s extra marital affair . The media has enjoyed their share of publicizing every bit of detail related to their affairs .Even after the court introduced injunction, where the media is not allowed to report any information regarding any kind of particular topic, still the public is aware of the inside information regarding John terry’s extra marital affair.

The majority of men will have a list of excuses where they will justify their infidelity. No matter how many excuses men or women give for cheating on their partners, still you can’t really accuse your partner for your own actions. The most common perception which majorities of the people have is men cheat to spice up their sex life . On the contrary, the research says that men usually cheat because they don’t feel valued in their relationship. Therefore, they search for someone who appreciates them a lot more in comparison to their existing partner.

I completely disagree with this excuse. If a man wants to have an extra marital affair then no matter how much happy his wife/girl friend makes him still he would look for some thrill outside the marriage. The main reason for men cheating on their partners is the boredom. Most of the couples get bored in the relationship , so they look for a change outside their relationship. The moment you realize that your relationship has lost the charm, you tend to get bored.

In my perception the only factor that binds the relationship is trust, respect, love, care and affection - Romance comes later! No relationship can be sustained just based on romance. In order to rebuild your relationship with zest you require patience and an effort to know why your relationship has become so dull. The foremost step to bridge the gap in a relationship is to GAIN TRUST of each other. From thereon, put an attempt to understand your partner.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic’s Notebook , 1966

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If you can afford a prostitute, you can afford a housekeeper!

Dated: 13 Sep 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: Relationships, Sexuality
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Yeah sounds interesting! Cindy Crawford has a perfect advice for cheating husbands who look for prostitutes to satisfy their never ending sexual desires!!!!!!!!!!!

 

She referred to those women who have to manage their household stuff with their professional life. They end up getting exhausted and hence they show less interest in their personal lives!

 

BUT HOLD ON! If the husband is well aware of the fact that his wife gets eXhausted because of overload of work and don’t show interest in fulfilling their sexual desires then does that mean they will look for prostitutes to satisfy their carnal desires??? That’s completely ridiculous! Instead of helping your wife in sharing her workload he would look out for prostitutes to satisfy his desires?

 

That makes me recall one statement which this guy made referring to the same kind of situation. He said “ I had various flicks but never ever paid to have sex and will never do that in the future” Doesn’t it hurt man’s ego to literally pay women for having sex?

 

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Is It Really Possible To Gain Trust Of Your Partner After Cheating On Him/Her?

Dated: 3 Jul 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: Relationships
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why men cheat

Do men in power easily get away after cheating on their wives ?

Do “we the people” rate our politicians based on their personal or professional lives?

My Take On It :-

I personally don’t really give a shit on what these politicians are up to in their personal lives– It’s not about why politicians cheat ? They cheat almost for the same reason like anyone else does. Point here is why men cheat or why women cheat ?

Recently, I read the news about one more politician cheating on his wife.

Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford , speaks about her husband’s recent affair admission.

She says “South Carolina first lady Jenny Sanford says her husband’s affair with an Argentine woman broke a trust that he must earn back — first from his family, then his constituents”

why politicians cheat on their wives?

Why do some women/men give a second chance to their partners?

Ø To save the marriage ?

Ø Or to get regular financial support?

Ø For the sake of their kids?

Ø Or because they are not strong enough to walk out of the relationship and lead a new life?

Ø Or because they feel threatened from their partners and don’t speak out against them and continues enduring the pain of betrayal in the relationship ?

Every relationship requires hell lot of effort to gain trust for each other. Then how can anyone put that on stake for just few minutes of pleasure?

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To What Extent A Woman Can Go To Support Her Man?

Dated: 25 Jun 2009
Posted by Pooja.Brahmi
Category: Relationships
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What To Do If Your Man Cheats On You ? – Any normal woman would say Dump him. I have read and heard a lot of real life stories on how relationships suffer if your man cheated on you.

Being a woman I have strong thoughts and opinions on to what extent a woman can forgive her man after discovering his unfaithfulness towards the relationship . It’s a normal saying “People do make mistakes” But is cheating on your partner is really just about a mistake?

In some cases where there are certain doubts on whether your man is really cheated on you? Or it’s just mere misunderstanding? Sometimes, you even go to the extent of searching for any signs that your man cheating on you .

  • But what to do when your man confesses that he cheated on you ? How would any woman react to it?
  • Will she blame herself for not putting her best to the relationship?
  • Will she forgive him?
  • Will she be disappointed and would try to except the way things are for the sake of her family and kids?
  • Or will she willingly accept her husband’s mistake and will give him a second chance?

Well, it all depends upon the kind of situation you are in.

Recently, all of you must have witnessed Shiney Ahuja’s Rape case , that’s the reason I am writing on this topic. Following is the confirmation based on what I have been witnessing and reading about Shiney Ahuja’s case:-

Q: Do you know the girl?

A: Yes she is my maid.

Q: For how long?

A: One-and-a-half months. My earlier maid Sangeeta got her temporarily. My cook Mohan and his wife know about this.

Q: Where were you yesterday afternoon?

A: At home.

Q: Were you there when she came to work?

A: Yes I was.

Q: The girl has alleged you have raped her.

A: No, I didn`t. I am being framed.

Q: The girl says she came at 12 noon and at about 3 pm you dragged her from the passage to the bedroom and raped her…

A: No, I didn`t rape …We had sex, but it was consensual.

I am sure Shiney Ahuja’s fans must have got startled after the news broke out! The only news that astounded me was Shiney Ahuja’s wife supporting him even after knowing that Shiney Ahuja confessed of having sex with his maid.

I really want to know what made Shiney Ahuja’s wife to be on his side?

How far can a Woman go to support her man?

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