Let’s Share The Story Of Our Lives!

Sometimes, I wonder it’s not that why we loose touch with our friends it’s just that with time as we grow - we realize who are our true friends and maintain our friendship with only “few and true”ones. Thankfully, I do have “one” friend with whom I can laugh or cry and share any of my personal stuff and be rest assured I am in good hands. Moreover, it’s not at all about for how many years you know each other, it’s all about how strong your friendship is. And no matter how many times you fight with each other, still after a while; somehow you get back to each other.

All of us go through ups and down, this is the time when god tells you who are your true friends. The one who offers you guidance and unconditional support in times when nobody is there with you.
In the journey of life we keep some friends forever and with others we loose touch. But do we wonder why and how it happens? I sometime introspect the ways we move on with our lives and forget our school friends, college friends and then when we start working we loose touch with our colleagues.

You call each other once in a while and then the number of calls drastically reduce. And then we just call each other only if we need favors; otherwise we end up totally being out of touch. And then one fine day we meet some old lost friend face to face. Our first expression is “Hey you it’s been a long time” you give an excuse of loosing the contact info. To end up the whole conversation you invite each other just for pure formality sake to visit them sometime.

How many of us remember someone deep down from the past and have lost touch with them. Do you now strive to establish contacts again? I do have handful of people I wonder sometimes, but I don’t really know how to reach out to them. Even after all my attempts to search them online on some of the most popular social websites, still all my efforts go in vain. If you think you have lost some of your precious friends then do make an effort to find them, may be you will get lucky this time.

Here is some of my favorite friendship quotes:-

“A real friend does not judge or want to be judged! their just a friend when in need! to listen, give advice, and if you fall they will be the first to be there to pick you up and go “what were you thinking, why didn’t you call? , now let me help you”
” I have learned that if you want to try and find a real friend loose your job and have no money and watch your “FRIENDS” disappear!! The ones that are left and still by your side are the only true friends you will ever have”

“Real friends are not the ones that bail you out of trouble, and lecture you about what you have done. They are the ones setting by your side, in trouble with you and laughing about what has just happened”

“From The Time… We Were Born,We Had Friends…Family Members Count as Friends,not Family Members but So Close That They Seem Like Family Members….”Your True Friends” Will Always Be There For You… “From Thick Or Thin”….”No Matter What The Situation Is”…If A Person Chooses To Be Around When You Are Going through A Difficult Time…”They Are Your True Friend”… And If I They Choose To Turn Their Head The Other Way…”They Are Not Your True Friend”…Most Of The Time In Need A Person Knows Who Their “True Friends” Are !!”

Whenever you find men cheating on their wives or girlfriends you tend to question who’s fault is it anyway? You can’t really pass a judgment on anyone until and unless you are well aware of the inside story. Every day you read about celebrities betraying their partners. All of us love to read about any personal information of top celebrities , politicians or big business tycoons . The fact remains most of us don’t really give a damn about their wives or girlfriends who have been betrayed. How does it really affect us?

Stories of Tiger Woods Betrayal , Ronnie Wood cheating his wife after 24 years of marriage and hooking up with a 21 year old Russian girl. Latest news of Sandra Bullock’s Husband extramarital affair with a tattoo model and how can you forget Mel Gibson’s extramarital affairs . For a matter of fact the stories of betrayals are endless. Needless to say, you will find more men cheating on their wives and girlfriends and vice versa. In no ways I am defending women! But if you see the stats then it’s quite evident that men tend to cheat on their partners are far more.

When women accuse the new love of their man then I find it a bit weird. Why women are hounding the other “girl in the picture”? Is your husband a dead brain that he doesn’t know how to control his emotions? Instead of accusing the other girl for enticing their husbands to leave their wives?!!!

The reason why I am writing an article on this topic is because today I was reading a article where wives literally pay other women to sleep with their husbands. The woman will find out on the request of the wives or girlfriends to what extent their husbands or boyfriends will go. These women are hired by detectives and get paid!

Some people are accusing “honey trappers ” for entrapment. Again I totally disagree with it! If your husband is loyal to you then no matter what happens your husband will not get trapped in any kind of sexual temptation . Why don’t you expect your husband to say “No” to any sort of sexual encounter ?

There is one more series same as that of “Cheaters ”. First they keep a watch on the suspect to ascertain if the suspect is seeing someone else. Later an agent approaches the “Suspect” in a friendly way. And if the person shows interest, then the agent pursues it further to find out to what extent the man or the woman can go!!

I find it quite interesting! Though I will never hire a honey trapper to hit on my husband; in no way I suspect the loyalty of my husband. In case you think your relation is not working then it’s better to talk it out or hire a relationship counselor . Later, if you think your relationship hasn’t worked out then “Honey trapper” will definitely give answers to your questions.

Till then don’t monitor your husbands let them free. Sooner or later if they are going to make the “Cardinal Sin” you need to be smart enough to CATCH THEM!

I don’t really bother to read love stories, but today I had some free time in hand so came across this lovely love story that will touch your heart

A girl in love asked her boyfriend..

Girl: Tell me… who do you love most in this world?

Boy: You, of course!

Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?

Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intensly in her eyes and
said, "You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw that
Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam’s rib and
created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only
when you find the woman of your life; you’ll no longer feel the
lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.
However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy
schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems…
their life became mundane. All the challenges posed by the harsh
realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each
other…

The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more
heated.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house…. At the
opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don’t love me!" The boy
hated her hildishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a
mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while…. He
regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you
can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things
and was determined in breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I’m really not your missing rib, please
let me go…..

She continued, "It is less painful this way…let us go on our separate
ways and search for our own partners…"

Five years went by…. He never remarried but he had tried to find out
about her life indirectly…… She had left the country and back….
She had married a foreigner and divorced….. He felt anguished that
she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the
lingering ache in his heart. He couldn’t bring himself to admit that
he was missing her.

One day, they finally met…. At the airport, a place where there were
many reunions and good-byes…. He was going away on a business trip.
She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating
them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy): How are you?

Girl): I’m fine. How about you… Have you found your missing rib?

Boy): No.

Girl): I’ll be flying to New York in the next flight.

Boy): I’ll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back…
You know my number… Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye.. "Good-bye." One
week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York. In
the event that shocked the world.. Midnight…..

Once again, he lit his cigarette….. And like before,he felt the
lingering ache in
his heart…. He finally knew, she was the missing rib that he had
carelessly broken.

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury….. Most often
than not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental…. We went
our frustrations 99% at our loved ones…. And even though we know
that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it’s often easier said
than done.

Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us
treasure every
moment and everyone in our lives. Tomorrow may never come; give and
accept what you have today………

Why men cheat ?” Nobody can figure

So I get to know one more incident of a celebrity cheating on his wife. Great Great !

After witnessing Ronnie Wood romancing with his daughter’s age girl, then Tiger woods admitting to infidelity . And now the media has recently discovered John Terry’s extra marital affair . The media has enjoyed their share of publicizing every bit of detail related to their affairs .Even after the court introduced injunction, where the media is not allowed to report any information regarding any kind of particular topic, still the public is aware of the inside information regarding John terry’s extra marital affair.

The majority of men will have a list of excuses where they will justify their infidelity. No matter how many excuses men or women give for cheating on their partners, still you can’t really accuse your partner for your own actions. The most common perception which majorities of the people have is men cheat to spice up their sex life . On the contrary, the research says that men usually cheat because they don’t feel valued in their relationship. Therefore, they search for someone who appreciates them a lot more in comparison to their existing partner.

I completely disagree with this excuse. If a man wants to have an extra marital affair then no matter how much happy his wife/girl friend makes him still he would look for some thrill outside the marriage. The main reason for men cheating on their partners is the boredom. Most of the couples get bored in the relationship , so they look for a change outside their relationship. The moment you realize that your relationship has lost the charm, you tend to get bored.

In my perception the only factor that binds the relationship is trust, respect, love, care and affection - Romance comes later! No relationship can be sustained just based on romance. In order to rebuild your relationship with zest you require patience and an effort to know why your relationship has become so dull. The foremost step to bridge the gap in a relationship is to GAIN TRUST of each other. From thereon, put an attempt to understand your partner.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic’s Notebook , 1966

Yeah sounds interesting! Cindy Crawford has a perfect advice for cheating husbands who look for prostitutes to satisfy their never ending sexual desires!!!!!!!!!!!

She referred to those women who have to manage their household stuff with their professional life. They end up getting exhausted and hence they show less interest in their personal lives!

BUT HOLD ON! If the husband is well aware of the fact that his wife gets eXhausted because of overload of work and don’t show interest in fulfilling their sexual desires then does that mean they will look for prostitutes to satisfy their carnal desires??? That’s completely ridiculous! Instead of helping your wife in sharing her workload he would look out for prostitutes to satisfy his desires?

That makes me recall one statement which this guy made referring to the same kind of situation. He said “ I had various flicks but never ever paid to have sex and will never do that in the future” Doesn’t it hurt man’s ego to literally pay women for having sex?