Let’s Share The Story Of Our Lives!

Every time you go through a set back in life; you tend to question yourself why god is punishing us ? WHY ME?

But little do we know that how god shapes us in tough times . The whole process of introspection allows you to experience an inner spiritual journey that makes you a stronger person. Whatever obstacle you are facing now will make you realize where you went wrong in the past. And how can you formulate a new approach to achieve your goal in the future.

Do you remember the times when your father tried to discipline you by being strict with you? How rebellious you would have got during that time? But the point is why your loved ones would discipline you with their harsh behavior. Obviously, they don’t want you to just punish you for the sake of punishing; they do it for your own good; which you can only realize in hind sight.

In the same way god is not punishing us in our tough times; instead god is making us realize how we can correct our past and the present. In demanding times it’s a human nature to complain to god as to why they are suffering ? Only in bad times we come closer to god and talk to god about why everything is falling apart?

Have you ever discovered a new side to you whenever you are going through difficult times? You should feel blessed by god if you go through trials and tribulations, because only during your fall you will learn how to rise again. Try to learn how you can transform the challenging times into a glory. It’s when we triumph during the time of adversity then only we realize that we stood out against all odds.

Just believe in yourself . Try to help others even when you are down on your luck. The sense of blessing from others will make you feel stronger as a person. It will give you an immense sense of satisfaction that you have a thought of helping others even when you yourself are going through testing times.

When life seems full of suffering then the only question you tend to ask yourself is when will the tough times be over? But things change when you see every suffering as an opportunity to make you stronger as a person. You will gain control on any kind of difficult situation once you convert the negativity of thoughts into a positive energy. Sooner or later difficult times will be replaced by good times.

Life is full of second chances, once you comprehend that deep within you have the power and strength to change everything and move ahead of the difficult times.

Whenever we are facing any kind of challenging times – Try to focus on other things that are good in your life and be grateful for that. It will not only help you to cherish your life but will also boost your motivational level to be positive in life.

I would like to share my favorite motivational song of The Beatles –

Let it Be lyrics

When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front of me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.

Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.

And when the broken hearted people living in the world agree,
there will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is still a chance that they will see,
there will be an answer. let it be.

Let it be, let it be, …..

And when the night is cloudy, there is still a light, that shines on me,
shine until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music, mother Mary comes to me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.

Let it be, let it be, …..

In tough times to whom you can look up to with a sense of hope and expectations that things will be fine?

 I am sure majority of the people will say GOD. God help us please - thats something which all of us have said to themselves when the going gets tough.

Sometimes, JUST NOTHING seems to work out - everywhere you see a roadblock.. how to get over these tough times like these?

Do we really get what we deserve? Thousands of thoughts are cropping up my mind. Some makes sense some not..Today I felt like writing down my thoughts…

Whenever I go out and look around .. I watch people and wonder is he/she satisfied with his life? Is he/she content with the way their life has shaped? Most probably, the answer will be a big NO.

Do we end up being alone in the search of life?

Hey - Wat’s up?

I have been away for a while and was not able to write. I have not been keeping well for the last few days, that’s why didn’t feel like writing.

Hopefully, I will try to get back to my writing interest from tomorrow. In the meantime, take care and share any of your interests.

“I need someone to talk to” How many times you have said this to yourself?

• Sometimes we think that there is nobody to talk to. All of us need to be heard! But not all of us have someone to whom they can approach to share their thoughts and fears. Even if you have someone who is willing to share your concerns and thoughts, still you don’t necessarily feel comfortable to open up. In situations like these when you feel that nobody understands you and you feel lost, it’s advisable to bring out your thoughts and feelings in some ways.

• Furthermore, each one of us goes through crisis in our lives, whether it’s related to their personal or professional life. There are times when we are happy or sad, during these times when we need someone to talk to.

• At the same time in today’s busy life you will find people who are not able to balance their professional and personal life. It leads to breakups, divorce and conflicts which affect their emotional well being. This is the time when you feel left out, rejected and detached from the outside world.

• It becomes difficult when you don’t even feel comfortable to share your concerns and emotions with your friends and family. During these times it gets very hard for an individual to lead a relaxed life with all the cluttered thoughts in their mind.

Things to do to feel relaxed and to gain a positive frame of mind:-

• In times like these, when you don’t have anyone to open up to it’s advisable to pour your thoughts through writing.

• With the advent of internet you are exposed to thousands of help line in the form of websites. Make the best use of it.

• There are many chat rooms where you can interact with other people. But the most important factor is first to take care of your own security by not sharing your personal information.

• Start your own blog or a forum where you have the freedom to talk about issues you are facing. It will not only help you to open up but you will also be able to help other needy people who need assistance.

• Don’t hesitate to call a helpline to seek counseling.

• I am not a professional person to guide but still I respect every individual’s right to open up. I hold my beliefs and values with great respect and value other person’s point of view at the time of crisis. The only factor that has been helpful for me to heal my fears is to communicate with someone you trust.

• But there are times when you don’t have someone to gain strength from, during that time search for strength within you. It’s easy said than done! But the most fulfilling relationship you can ever form is the relationship with yourself.

• I am sure that I and my blog don’t even exist in the internet world! But that doesn’t make much of a difference to me. I hold my vision, beliefs and thoughts to myself and the blog provides me the freedom to open up. That’s the only purpose of this blog, it’s quite overwhelming to read my own thoughts.

• I thank all those people who post their valuable comments on my blog, it boost my morale that there are some people who acknowledge my effort to talk about certain issues that makes a difference.

• So the only suggestion for people out there who need someone to talk to is to find activities that will help you open up, boost your morale and lift up your subdued spirit.

• Eat healthy, read novels,dance, listen to music, write poems, participate in sports and most of all go out and help needy people.

• It will give you an immense strength that you have helped someone who is going through a tough time. Believe me the pain, anger and sorrows that are building inside you will slowly diminish.

• If you see someone who you think is introvert, lonely and going through an emotional trauma don’t be judgmental, just approach the person with an open mind. It requires a great deal of patience and effort to understand a person who is a victim of stress, depression, child abuse or any kind of addictions.