Get Over The Hurt Of A Break Up – Dealing with a breakup in a relationship brings misery, sadness, hurt and all the spiteful emotions that will put you down every single day. How to overcome the hurt of a break up is the first question that comes to your mind when you depart from the relationship with someone you deeply loved.

Time Is The Best Healer In The Matter Of Hearts

No matter how hard you try to deal with the hurt of a break up; getting over a breakup will not ensue in a short period of time. Time is the only factor that can help you coping with breakup.

Heal Yourself From The Hurt Of A BreakUp

Keep Yourself Occupied With Productive Work

This is the second most imperative tip for Surviving breakups. It’s quite apparent that your daily efficiency level will immensely get affected; when you are getting through a breakup. Starting over after a breakup can only be possible if you be engaged and focused towards the goals in your life; after all that is the one aspect of everybody’s life that gives a sense of fulfillment.


Ask Yourself Are You Willing To Forget The Past

Do you still have the feeling of getting back together after breakup. If the answer is yes then getting over a relationship breakup will be very complicated. In case you still feel ensnared in the emotions and moments that you shared with your ex then try to give yourself some time to come to terms with the reality.

Don’t Underestimate Your Self

When you break up then the sentiment of low self esteem is the first feeling that you go through. It’s natural to have a disturbed state of mind, which won’t even let you even do your normal daily chores. The only trick that works really well is to divert your mind and keep your mind occupied with some productive work i.e something that will take you to closer to your career goals.

Gods Way Of Telling

No matter what were the reasons behind the breakup of a relationship; after some period of time we discover that whatever happened has happened for your own good. So give yourself some time and don’t let the heartbreak lower your morale to lead a gratifying life.

Destroy All The Gifts

Break ups with girlfriends or boyfriends become even more heartening when you see the gifts that reminds you of the moments you shared with your ex. This is why it’s important to destroy all the pictures, gifts and any particular thing that reminds you of your ex.

Heal Yourself From The Hurt Of A BreakUp

Don’t Be Revengeful – Bring Motivation

Some men turn violent and do rubbish acts against their ex; while women put all the blame on their ex head for the breakup. When you become revengeful; you are only hurting yourself. It would be great if you take the motivation and become someone you always wanted to be – like a successful business man Or for that matter losing some extra pounds and becoming more confident of yourself.

Join A New Outdoor Activity

When you are in a relationship you hardly get that spare time to devote to something that you have always be interested to indulge in. For example learning some sports ,go ahead and join a sports club where you can also make new friends.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Relationship advice on What women want in men is no rocket science; read the following tips on how to attract women and ways to keep your woman happy in a relationship.

What do women want in men? : Respect her dreams/ career

When you make a commitment to someone you love; women want men to know the dreams and passion of your partner. If you don’t respect the dream of your woman; if you don’t encourage your woman and offer regular encouragement then no matter how romantic or loving you are; it won’t really matter.

I have seen so many cases where women has to sacrifice their careers and be with their husbands wherever they get transferred. I have hardly witnessed any marriage where they guy is encouraging. Why the career of a man holds more importance over the career of a woman? Regard her career ambitions as vital as yours.

Take out time to assist her

Women need men to be an exhilarating force. If your partner needs guidance in her career then always be willing to accompany her at any stage.

Little gestures do matter

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Majority of the women take care of the cooking and household work; may be for a change men can also contribute some time in the kitchen and share their burden. Just a simple gesture of serving dinner to her can bring a smile on her face. What do women want from men is no mystery ; you will get all the answers; once you put yourself at her position and be considerate towards her.

Care during pregnancy

During the pregnancy period women go through a drastic physical and emotional change. Women need to be assured that her man will provide her unconditional care and help her cope with the sudden psychological changes. The transition from a woman to a mother is not an easy affair; therefore men also need to show care and do every possible thing to offer a relaxing environment to your woman. Certain important assurances like childbirth care, pregnancy care and post pregnancy care needs to be given high importance by men. It will enable the women to feel secured about the sudden changes that the pregnancy tend to pose in every woman’s life.

Be a good listener

Instead of just sidelining her bad mood as a menstrual symptom; be patient and listen to her side of the story. Don’t dismiss her by just naming everything as “cribbing”. You can only resolve differences if you know how to talk to women. Both partners should be willing to hear each other out; if you don’t resolve the differences and bury them ; then sooner or later it will ruin the relationship.

Women want man to shower surprises

It doesn’t have to be an expensive holiday or an Armani outfit. Even a simple boat ride or a cute outfit can be enough to bring a big smile on her face. Know her likes and dislikes and plan a surprise accordingly.

Stand by me

What men want from women is to offer unconditional love to her man in ups and down. As much as your women stood by you at every stage of your life; when it’s a time where she needs support don’t be ignorant and be a jackass! Or very soon you will lose her love and care.

Behind every successful man there is a woman

Yes it’s an old saying! Shower your care and support in every possible way that one day she will also thank you for supporting her in every possible way.

Don’t dig in the past

Be forgiving; we all are human so don’t drag the past issues in the present or in the future. Always. Sort out the issues then and there and never bring it up in the future. Blaming game will take you nowhere.

What do men want from women?

Men consider romance to be one of the most important aspect of a relationship. Men should also know that women also crave for passionate moments. Make her feel good about having you in her life and . If you will be a mean jerk who never respect her woman then one day the girl will show you the way to hell.

Just you and me

Quality time where two of you can share light moments. Don’t always get wrapped up in your busy life schedule and family responsibilities that you forget to nurture the relationship. Go out where just two of you can relax.

Security for the family

Women like responsible men; they may date a freaky and crazy men but when it comes to choosing a partner they need to have faith in her man. Whether it’s about building a house, insurance or handling any other financial issues. Women want their partners to make intelligent decisions.

Stop comparing

It’s quite certain that all men want their women to have Pamela Anderson assets. If you can go under the scissor and get a better asset for your woman then only expect your women to look like a model 24/7. Love her not because of her skinny figure or silicon breasts; love her the way she showers love and care to you and your family. If you anticipate your woman to keep her body hair free then the least you can do is also give yourself a makeover and not always wear the same shorts for 3 consecutive days. What women want in a man is the freedom to be themselves and not to be examined by their appearances all the time.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Don’t treat your woman like a maid

If you can’t clean up the house then at least don’t be a jerk to make the house messy with your stinky socks and empty coke cans thrown around , put the toilet seat down, keep your clothes in order and the list goes on and on. What women want men to know is that we are not their maids.

Get a life

If you are a sluggish ass who just loves to guzzle loads of beer and watch Tv all day long; then don’t expect your woman to follow your dull routine. Give her freedom to be herself and let her enjoy what she truly loves.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

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What I Need To Learn From My 1 Year Old Son

You can only apprehend the true meaning of love when you experience motherhood. Moreover, your highest level of endurance can only be tested when you deliver your baby. This is exactly what happened to me!

Every single day I am reliving my childhood doing silly things just to see my son laugh. And my Little master make everyone smile and laugh around him. I Guess nobody can be as carefree and happy as babies are!

Each one of us must have thought to themselves the key to be happier and empower ways to be successful in life.

The Way He Greets People

Whenever he looks around and observe someone looking at him he passes a smile. And then the other person tend to have a bright smile on their face.


He Is A Drama Master

When he wants something he becomes adamant to get it under any circumstances! There are times when there is something that is delicate or can hurt him; so during that time we try to divert his mind and give any other stuff. Initially, he doesn’t want to settle down but then within few minutes he starts enjoying “the new” thing.

I wonder can I learn something from him on how to be happy and be appreciative with what you have?

How He Forgets that…

Once in a while when he is being demanding I have to say No! And then he becomes silent and upset for few minutes and then comes back again in his usual self! He is getting naughtier day by day!

I wish I have the ability to forget and forgive people who upsets me!

His Range Of Changing Moods

Once in a while he gets moody and need my total attention; when he doesn’t get my attention he makes innocent faces towards me! I know how I used to fight with my husband whenever I thought I was not getting enough compassion. Now I have learned the art from my son on how to get attention with “just a look” that can say it all !

Smile Does Increase Your Face Value

The research suggests, on an average baby smiles more than 400 times a day. Woohoo!

No wonder why babies have lovely looks and the charming skin! So now you don’t need any beauty enhancement treatments just Smile.

How Silly and Little Objects Can Entertain Him

He loves playing with kitchen utensils, brooms and any other household thing. He brings a sense of joy and fun to any item of the house. I have literally stopped bringing toys for him now.  Won’t it be amazing if we find joy in doing little things; instead of running after materialist things.

Do share your observations on how you can actually live happier if you start thinking like a baby! Talk to that little baby inside you.

There are millions of religions and when asked about the question of “The Existence Of God” each individual will claim their own theory. At the same time every person has the right to hold his/her own opinion and beliefs “in favor” or “against” the “Existence Of God” It’s their mere choice and judgment of ones own theory.

I have done bit of research in trying to find out a logical theory that proves “the existence of god”. There has been several theories that have been coming to the limelight, but not even single theory have enough proves that something existed in the past.

How we start believing in god

Every individual is always asked and guided by the family to believe in god from the very beginning. All over the world the acceptance of god has been practiced because of the fact that their ancestors have been following some or the other “kind” of god.

It’s the safest way out to follow the same theory that has been practiced for years. And not many people question the stories which they get to hear from their ancestors.

Needless to say, not every individual acknowledge the existence of god. And those people who come forward to put their opinions forward either get criticized or be thrown from their community. Any kind of religious debates turn into Religious communal riots. Christians believe that their god “Jesus” is the only savior of this world. On the other hand, Muslims have indisputable faith in their Qur’an and Jews have strongly opposed any other religion except their own!!!

The only conclusion I can derive from my study is – If you follow any particular religion and have strong faith in it then follow it wholeheartedly. But never criticize any other religion. Because nobody on this earth can prove that god existed.

The documentary that made me think is Bill Maher’s Religulous Documentary

Some inspiring words that my hubby’s grandfather told him, words that are simple yet influential. He shared his story of life – his mistakes, his regrets and a lot more. He said whatever mistakes I made just don’t make those mistakes. It’s certain that you will have your share of mistakes based on your life experiences. This made me think on what kind of approach we have towards our lives and how crucial it’s to realize certain important aspects.

Today after a long time I felt a “zeal” to write something about how each one of us are leading our lives and how many of us are focussed. How the most influential people have achieved success and attained their goals. How one human being is more focussed than another? The philosophy behind all this is far complicated than it looks like.

The only place in your body that help you attain your goals is your mind. When you lead your life there are many distractions and obstacles that can divert your path from your goals. But if you have control within your mind you will become more determined to achieve your goal and be focussed in life.

Your mind dictates your day to day activity on how you react to certain situations in life. Take charge of your mind with a positive outlook, fear of a failure and  negative thoughts are bound to come but once you exercise control on your mind and work hard towards your goals your life will be transformed in a good way.
Look for inspiring figures; read the biographies of influential people you will learn something from their struggle in life. Now is the time when you can unleash your true potential and realize of what you are capable of attaining in life. 

How We disregard Our Inner self

On the other hand, have you ever wondered how People tend to work on their outer appearance more than their inner soul. Majority of us are willing to do anything that it takes to look attractive but how many of us hear their inner voice. Little do we know that the only place that can help you to lead a fulfilling life is when you discover your mind power?
Well Well Well today Ask yourself a few questions if you want something more from your life. Do you have control on your mind and your thought process?