How I got my girlfriend back

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The friends of mine who had a heartbreak need tips on How I got my girlfriend back.I thought it’s better to post online, wondering it might be helpful to many guys out there who miss their ex.

The process of contemplating how you much you invested in your relationship is something that really worked wonders for me. Majority of the relationships die a natural death because of basic of loss of respect, care, trust and attention. These emotions are just confined to just saying now. I LOVE YOU – I CARE FOR YOU.
Most of us don’t express their love with action and end up losing their partner.
It can help you regain the lost love.

Pen down the events-

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– 1. Did you support her in the big events of her life?
– We all go through good and tough phases in our lives. Pen down the most important phases of life where you expressed your care for her.

– 2. Did you ever break her trust?
– No relationship can survive without trust. The trust is the pillar of any relationship. Pen down the situations where you lied to her and broke her trust on you.

– 3. Did you do enough to make her feel that you care?
– The one supreme factor that makes you feel loved is the care that you show towards your partner. Did you make an effort in asking her what do you need? Write 10 main incidents where you took care of her basic needs before you fulfilled yours. Write 10 compliments that she gave you for taking care of her in the most loving way.

– 4. Did you listen to her of the things that were troubling her?
– There are times when the relationship die with each passing day. It’s natural to express what you expect from each other. Pen down the change of behavior that she expected from you and how successful you were in fulfilling it.

– 5. Did you offer her a sense of security?
All of us need to get settled down before we choose to get into the association of marriage. It’s fun to hang around in the college canteen, but after a while every couple has to face the reality of paying bills and then starting a family. Just “LOVE” for each other won’t take care of all the financial needs of running a family.Hence, get settled so that you can take care of the basic needs of the family.

– 6. Write simple act of kindness you did to bring a smile on her face.

– 7. Were you by her side when she needed you the most? Write the incidents and express “WHAT YOU DID”
And not “WHAT YOU SAID” Because action speaks louder than words

Don't say goodbye I love you letter

Don’t say goodbye I love you letter

Be true to yourself while answering these questions. If you think you played your part with whole dedication then don’t worry she will be in your arms.

I focused on all the factors and then apprehended my behavior towards her. I perceived and realized where I went wrong. I took a month to incorporate some of the expectations that she had from me, later on I felt a sense of confidence to approach her to forgive me.

Since then I never took little gestures of love for granted, that she really anticipated from me.
It was a happy ending for both of us where we truly love each other and can never think of being away.

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife – Get Crazy Get Wild

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There is no dearth of ideas on how to romance your wife. I will share this crazy, romantic Valentine surprise for my darling/loving wife.

It’s that time of the year again, everything seems just a little romantic and for young people “love is in the air”

The world celebrates the 14th day of Feb as a day when to express love and affection to someone special. This has been tradition since the 15th century. And there is little doubt that it will always be there. It is not considered as a holiday and everyone is working. But people really look forward to you this day.

 

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

When you are young then it’s sharing that perfect moment with that perfect someone, spending time by walking together or watching a movie. Who you spend the day with is the person who means the most to you. Who you spend Valentine day with might turn out to be the person who you share the rest of your life with.

I remember my first ever Valentine day was with a girl in Kolkata. She was actually seeing someone else. But somehow I persuaded her to come and spend time with me. It was then just the thrill of spending that day with someone which was more important than any other feeling. For most guys it is a matter of spending the day with a girl. When you are young it’s often the silly notions that matter.

But I remember the one that meant the most to me. I was in Sydney finishing my conference when I realised that by the time I got back home it would be after 12at night and I won’t be able to wish my wife. So I hatched a plan of getting my wife to Sydney from Adelaide. My wife works at as a teacher for an international school s she could only get off by late in the afternoon. So I had a taxi pick her up and take her to the airport. She was not aware of all this and the only thing she knew was that one of the senior teachers had asked her to get on a plane to go to Sydney. I had arranged it with the school principe because she knew us as she was a neighbour. In the mean time I had already arrived at Adelaide about 1 hour before her flight.

A crew of about 15 people helped me in decorating the plane. We had removed the seats at the back end of the plane. They were now filled with balloons and flowers. Balloons on a plane! We then had this amazing chocolate cake designed I’m the shape of the heart waiting for her. But the real surprise was that all the passengers I’m the plane were actors, dancers and chefs.

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

I got on around 6 in the evening and hid at at the back. My wife went through the usual security checks and finally boarded the aircraft. I texted just as I saw her walk in to the plane, saying that I will be stuck in Sydney and won’t be back on the same day. Nothing looked out if the ordinary. Some regular people just getting on the plane. Putting their bags which were actually filled with confetti in the overhead storage space. The crew started preparing for take off and the plane did its routine taxing in the runway. And then we were off!

After reaching cruise altitude the pilot announced that the lady sitting on seat27D should move to the front of the plane. She looked worried and a little shocked. Why was she singled out at 40,000 feet above the ground. As she went to the business class section, she was told by the air hostess that she has to sit with her eyes closed as there are some security issues. My wife became a little animated and started demanding on what was going on. What has she done to be treated differently, just then without any warning the people get up from the seats and take their jackets off to reveal the shining new party dress. The music starts and it is the Rolling Stones playing “under my thumb”. Yes I know it is not the right music for a valentine day but it is the song that she would recognise and then she had a nervous smile.

 

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

Romantic Ideas For Your Wife

And with a bang! I jump at the front of the dancers with a rose stem in mouth, “hey honey! Happy Valentine’s day”. The amazing shock on her face was priceless. It was really worth all the trouble. So not many people have celebrated a special valentine day at 40,000 feet above sea level and with a group of dancers, cakes and of course the final big splash. The pilot got it down to 5000 feet and my wife was told to wear this jacket. She was having too much fun and was just overwhelmed with this gesture that she did not suspect what was coming next. Well, as she was jumping and having fun I grabbed her with my own parachute jacket and moved towards the door. She started to scream nervously and could not believe I was going to do this. She started to howl. But I took the leap with her tied to me . 500 feet plunging to our earth with my love on valentine’s day. Well that is something special. Us and we did make it back to ground safely in 26 minutes.

This is how you should celebrate love. It has to be loud, dangerous and outrageous. The crazy part of love is what makes us believe in this miracle.

Why She Never Called Me Back

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Why she never called me back
Waiting for a call from a girl you really admire? Has it become a never ending wait… Know Why

1) She didn’t like your nature

When you meet someone the first trait that strikes you is the way you carry yourself, your manner of striking a conversation. These are some of the basic attributes that people notice and remember (more than your outer personality). If you are polite (no artificial politeness) then chances are that you are on the right road; sooner or later you will make yourself wanted.
The key lies in taking it easy!

Why She Never Called Me Back

Why She Never Called Me Back

2) Let her talk

Yes be a good listener and encourage her to talk about her interests by showing curiosity in her hobbies or activities she loves to indulge in. If you have knowledge about her field of interest then go ahead and let her feel that you are knowledgeable – i.e if she likes modern art then talk about the artists whose work you appreciate and are world renowned. These kind of interesting talks will make a good impression on her mind about you. If you are totally “desperate” in making an instant impact then search her name on internet and look out for her interests, liking, hobbies etc. Moreover, it will enable you to update your knowledge well in advance of certain areas that you are not knowledgeable about. I personally like exploring different interesting fields which even help me to enhance my overall awareness.

3) Don’t lose control on yourself

When you get anxious or nervous you start chewing your nails …haaaaaaaa yes yes you will still find some men out there who dig their nose and scratch their bal””s in public….
Each of us possess some awful habits which you find really hard to shed off …. ….. …. So be watchful of your acts…
Some more to add on – biting your nails, eating food in a totally disordered way etc etc then it’s better to be in control of yourself! These little things do matter a lot…it can really make your overall personality meter go down ………….

4) Chillax but don’t get carried away

Girls are really smart in judging men with their tricks and acts…. Let me give you an example: If a girl is getting drunk and forcing you to have a number of drinks then it doesn’t necessarily mean that she wants you to get drunk with her…. In a way it’s just a test of you where she is testing how will you handle a situation like this where you are forced to do something.
And all the men out there get the facts straight – you don’t have to smoke or drink in order to impress a girl who is into smoking or drinking. Just be yourself; have control on the number of drinks you take and never lose self control.

5) Don’t make too quick too soon move on her or……..

It primarily depends on what exactly you are looking out for – Is it just a casual dating affair you are interested in?, or a chance to get laid with someone you think is really hot or you want a long term relationship with “The One” with whom you dream to share your life with. All men and women have different interest levels and there is nothing wrong in thinking the way you think at a particular stage of your life. The only consideration that needs to be taken care of is the mach of interest intensity between both of you… If she is interested in having a long term commitment and you are looking for just a casual dating or other way around then chances are sooner or later you will face disappointment.

6) Blah Blah Blah

No matter you won the last Mr India Pageant, cleared IMM Entrance exam, went to London 10 times and what not!!!!!!!!!! Just Don’t brag about yourself too much, give your mouth a little rest when it’s required. The right key to have an interesting and convincing conversation is to know the right time and right way to respond when the other person is talking.

7) Just your bad luck

She found someone else with whom her compatibility level was far better than your chemistry with her. Come-on don’t get dishearten there is one more “Just Right There” waiting for you for a drink……….. and the one you lost was not meant for you….!!

8) Past should never be discussed… No No No

Don’t start dating again if you are not over the crying and misery phase after you broke off with your ex. It’s a big turn off for women as well as for men when the past relationships are discussed…..

9) How you treat others

If your taste buds are taking a toll on you and you disliked a dish at a restaurant where you are dining with her then by screaming or criticizing the chef won’t really leave a good impression on her about you. No matter how much grand treatment you are offering her; it’s equally important for women to know how you treat others. Therefore, get your social acts straight before you label you a rude chap!
Alright Alright Alright………….these were just a few points to answer to your question “Why she never called me back”

Leave your comments and feel free to share some of your tricks impress a girl ….. or ways to get a call back from a girl you dated or met

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

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What women want from men in a relationship is a question that men often ponder; exactly in the same way women contemplate “what men want from women in a relationship”. I won’t hover around the main ingredients of a healthy relationship – Love, Loyalty, Care and yes how can you forget intimacy. Today, I am going to express the main cause of “breakups and divorces” “why some men can’t attract women” and “why majority of the women are so dissatisfied in a relationship” We are going to share some Relationship advice for men for a happy relationship.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Relationship advice on What women want in men is no rocket science; read the following tips on how to attract women and ways to keep your woman happy in a relationship.

What do women want in men? : Respect her dreams/ career

When you make a commitment to someone you love; women want men to know the dreams and passion of your partner. If you don’t respect the dream of your woman; if you don’t encourage your woman and offer regular encouragement then no matter how romantic or loving you are; it won’t really matter.

I have seen so many cases where women has to sacrifice their careers and be with their husbands wherever they get transferred. I have hardly witnessed any marriage where they guy is encouraging. Why the career of a man holds more importance over the career of a woman? Regard her career ambitions as vital as yours.

Take out time to assist her

Women need men to be an exhilarating force. If your partner needs guidance in her career then always be willing to accompany her at any stage.

Little gestures do matter

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Majority of the women take care of the cooking and household work; may be for a change men can also contribute some time in the kitchen and share their burden. Just a simple gesture of serving dinner to her can bring a smile on her face. What do women want from men is no mystery ; you will get all the answers; once you put yourself at her position and be considerate towards her.

Care during pregnancy

During the pregnancy period women go through a drastic physical and emotional change. Women need to be assured that her man will provide her unconditional care and help her cope with the sudden psychological changes. The transition from a woman to a mother is not an easy affair; therefore men also need to show care and do every possible thing to offer a relaxing environment to your woman. Certain important assurances like childbirth care, pregnancy care and post pregnancy care needs to be given high importance by men. It will enable the women to feel secured about the sudden changes that the pregnancy tend to pose in every woman’s life.

Be a good listener

Instead of just sidelining her bad mood as a menstrual symptom; be patient and listen to her side of the story. Don’t dismiss her by just naming everything as “cribbing”. You can only resolve differences if you know how to talk to women. Both partners should be willing to hear each other out; if you don’t resolve the differences and bury them ; then sooner or later it will ruin the relationship.

Women want man to shower surprises

It doesn’t have to be an expensive holiday or an Armani outfit. Even a simple boat ride or a cute outfit can be enough to bring a big smile on her face. Know her likes and dislikes and plan a surprise accordingly.

Stand by me

What men want from women is to offer unconditional love to her man in ups and down. As much as your women stood by you at every stage of your life; when it’s a time where she needs support don’t be ignorant and be a jackass! Or very soon you will lose her love and care.

Behind every successful man there is a woman

Yes it’s an old saying! Shower your care and support in every possible way that one day she will also thank you for supporting her in every possible way.

Don’t dig in the past

Be forgiving; we all are human so don’t drag the past issues in the present or in the future. Always. Sort out the issues then and there and never bring it up in the future. Blaming game will take you nowhere.

What do men want from women?

Men consider romance to be one of the most important aspect of a relationship. Men should also know that women also crave for passionate moments. Make her feel good about having you in her life and . If you will be a mean jerk who never respect her woman then one day the girl will show you the way to hell.

Just you and me

Quality time where two of you can share light moments. Don’t always get wrapped up in your busy life schedule and family responsibilities that you forget to nurture the relationship. Go out where just two of you can relax.

Security for the family

Women like responsible men; they may date a freaky and crazy men but when it comes to choosing a partner they need to have faith in her man. Whether it’s about building a house, insurance or handling any other financial issues. Women want their partners to make intelligent decisions.

Stop comparing

It’s quite certain that all men want their women to have Pamela Anderson assets. If you can go under the scissor and get a better asset for your woman then only expect your women to look like a model 24/7. Love her not because of her skinny figure or silicon breasts; love her the way she showers love and care to you and your family. If you anticipate your woman to keep her body hair free then the least you can do is also give yourself a makeover and not always wear the same shorts for 3 consecutive days. What women want in a man is the freedom to be themselves and not to be examined by their appearances all the time.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Don’t treat your woman like a maid

If you can’t clean up the house then at least don’t be a jerk to make the house messy with your stinky socks and empty coke cans thrown around , put the toilet seat down, keep your clothes in order and the list goes on and on. What women want men to know is that we are not their maids.

Get a life

If you are a sluggish ass who just loves to guzzle loads of beer and watch Tv all day long; then don’t expect your woman to follow your dull routine. Give her freedom to be herself and let her enjoy what she truly loves.

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

What Women Want From Men In A Relationship

Sexual Harassment Settlement Cases Makes Me Wonder

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Sexual Harassment Settlement – Why?

  • These days we witness quite a few Sexual Harassment cases of celebrities going for out of court settlement, where both the parties reach to a mutual consent.
  • The very question that comes to my mind is how a girl can choose to reconcile her emotional and physical misery with someone who has tortured her?
  • Can the power of money heal all the physical and emotional hurt that a girl goes through when she was being sexually harassed?
  • And if you are not guilty then why the hell you reach to a mutual settlement by paying off the girl to shut the hell up?