Every single person wants to know the key to success, little do we know that there are no secrets of success. You just need to contemplate the strategies of success; believe me or dismiss me but most of it depends upon the successful relationships we form in our personal lives.
It won’t be wrong if we say that – All of us have endured letdowns, breakups, depression and low self esteem in our lives. These are just one of the few distressing times that leave you emotionally hurt. Some people continuously endeavor in life and are indeterminate of reasons of their failures in life.
I myself have experienced various ups and downs in my life; during those times you tend to rummage for someone with whom you can share your insecurities and negativity. Who can be a better person to understand you than your “life partner”?
LOVE COUPLE
Have you discovered someone with whom you can share your darkest side and in return you are quite destined that you won’t be misjudged by your partner. The sad reality of our society is that not many people marry the right person, typically most of the marriages end in “Divorce” You won’t be stunned to see the figures doubling in the next coming years.
Basically, what’s the reason – Why do relationships fail? Do we rush into commitments or we get captivated towards an outer beauty more than inner beauty of the person.
Before you chose to get married with the right person, you need to apprehend the true meaning of “institution of marriage” The main decision lies in choosing the right person who knows how to honor relationships.
Relationships Are Made In Heaven But Are Developed On Earth
God may bless you with a partner that you have dreamed of, but you need to work on the relationship. When you experience struggling times in a relationship you need to accept it as an opportunity to understand your partner and work as a team in the relationship. Each one of us are going through challenging times in our day to day life i.e career struggle or financial problems.
It’s natural to behave differently when you are going through tough times. This is when your partner should realize the outside hindering factors that are disturbing you. If your partner realizes the reason of your depressing state of mind and can be your friend with whom you can talk to; then nothing can be more fulfilling then that!
You need to accept the challenges of life, because this is called “LIVING” And when you have an understanding partner who shares your life in any kind of circumstances then you can surely excel in life.
So now you know how to know whether you have the right person in your life or not.
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Tue, February 15 2011 » My Family, Relationships, psychology » No Comments
An Ode to My Wife
Honey It’s been a long time when I last wrote a love letter to you. I have written at least 100 love letters to you and you have written just 1 ! You always say you don’t know how to write a love letter and I Say at least say it how much you love me.
Whole Lotta Love duh duh duh!
Where do I begin,,, she has been there for me like no one else has. She is the mother to my child, pink to my black, smile to my frown, white light pointing the way forward in darkness, heaven sent, fire and ice, the tempest, wild beauty, untamed heart, Emilia to my Iago (except that she helps me to become a better man), the eccentric sportsmen, creator of the “piyo”, rebellious anti-romantic, lady for the poor, mama’s girl, the German Sheppard lover, from innocent to naughty, from seductive voice to conservative libertine!
She lift my days and light my nights, yet she can kill you with a smile or with a deft touch, an ocean of incoherent thoughts for me to find my way to her promise land. A promise land in pink and white, where she he is running on green grass making heads turn as an aura passes them by. The love for sea food, newly acquired taste in Guinness and Newcastle ale tells a tale a girl wanting to be much more than her present.
She comes from bright land of wisdom, innocence and peace. She has unknowingly kissed chaos; she did not know what was coming, she was tricked into believing only the good and not the bad. She cried foul but took the punches in her stride, giving her strength to her man. Standing by her man! Casting a spell of purity and magic, protecting him from betrayal and thoughts that are tragic.
She did not realize but she has crossed the chaos, the flooding river, yet she feels lost in her own promise land. Did she really want it to start with? A little tired of waiting for the next big wave, she has started to create her own, ushered in by a born-again man, they come together in the most needful hour, they are the same. She needs to believe in him more, he needs to give her more. She will win her actual promise land, her freedom from confused thoughts and negative vibes! She will triumph over adversity only if she BELIEVES in herself and her old new man!
Don’t Forget!
The first kiss on the Ride back home, to Delhi haat, outside Dayal mansion, Bangkok boat ride, Parikrama parikrama, Paul McCartney rain and clutching of hand to go home and the smile when he came on to sing, the FA cup final, Momo, 9-1 baddy thrashing at amby (felt really good huh!), slippers in -21, O’briens, Mister chef, corono drinking and sleeping, champagne bottle in 5 minutes, loving breezer, the test in bath room and screaming, joshu’s heart beat, Oscar performances (how can I miss), navel revealing rebel to you know who?, rolling stones is a …….. , the window at krasnorminsk, cozy home in 7 days, endless relatives, the poise at lunch with Ukrainians, Goa train ride, guarding you in Jammu, this is where your humor lies, the shouts at Centaur, the naan at Centaur, Amitabh’s story on the drive home, so many stories! Your first Paypal sal! I remember! The new opportunities which you brought in for me. Your hand in my destiny, from Dubai to Kiev.
So remember Wifey, even if I “think” I am the brains of the outfit, you are the soul of the outfit, the guiding light and the destiny of the outfit. If you want me to get Jake, bring Jake to me! Only you can! Just ask God! As I will ask for you to start and achieve your destiny! (I think it is business…)
From Ankhiyon Ke Jharokhon to Whole Lotta Love! Darling your journey has begun! So forget about what’s been, embrace your future, your love, your Joshu, your man! Fall in Love again with me! I still love you after all these years! And even though you don’t think I do! My silly sassy girl – I DO!!! I love you like crazy! There never could be a better moment than THIS ONE!
So in the words of our Bono
“All the promises we make from the cradle to grave, when all I want is you”
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Wed, February 2 2011 » Fun Time, Love Letters, My Family, My Favorite Songs, Relationships » No Comments
The ‘Argument Against God’ introduced many theories of god and “The Existence Of God” It affirms the various inconsistent and contradictory explanation by many faithful believers of god. It’s impossible to conclude on one theory to prove the existence of god.
There are millions of religions and when asked about the question of “The Existence Of God” each individual will claim their own theory. At the same time every person has the right to hold his/her own opinion and beliefs “in favor” or “against” the “Existence Of God” It’s their mere choice and judgment of ones own theory.
I have done bit of research in trying to find out a logical theory that proves “the existence of god”. There has been several theories that have been coming to the limelight, but not even single theory have enough proves that something existed in the past.
How we start believing in god
Every individual is always asked and guided by the family to believe in god from the very beginning. All over the world the acceptance of god has been practiced because of the fact that their ancestors have been following some or the other “kind” of god.
It’s the safest way out to follow the same theory that has been practiced for years. And not many people question the stories which they get to hear from their ancestors.
Needless to say, not every individual acknowledge the existence of god. And those people who come forward to put their opinions forward either get criticized or be thrown from their community. Any kind of religious debates turn into Religious communal riots. Christians believe that their god “Jesus” is the only savior of this world. On the other hand, Muslims have indisputable faith in their Qur’an and Jews have strongly opposed any other religion except their own!!!
The only conclusion I can derive from my study is – If you follow any particular religion and have strong faith in it then follow it wholeheartedly. But never criticize any other religion. Because nobody on this earth can prove that god existed.
The documentary that made me think is Bill Maher’s Religulous Documentary
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Wed, January 26 2011 » psychology, self growth » No Comments
The need of new cocktail party ideas are always in demand; after all Cocktail parties give you a reason to unwind from your busy life schedule. We not only love to attend cocktail parties but also enjoy throwing cocktail parties as often as we can.
cocktail party ideas
The first thing that comes to your mind before you plan to invite your guests is your budget. It doesn’t have to be a lavish cocktail party, usually people have a tight budget to stick on. You can still make things happen, provided you plan a cocktail party well in advance.
Plan The Menu, Decide The Guest List.
The menu doesn’t have to include expensive food choices like “Sushi” or “15 years old wine”. The idea is to have a fun with your friends; it doesn’t necessarily have to be a lavish party.
Buy In Bulk
You will always get cheaper rates when you buy bulk items. The must have items includes juices, cheese, candles, wine, beer, sodas, vodka, champagne, cola and off course whiskey. I love to get discounts on wholesale items, whether it’s an alcoholic item,napkins, decorating stuff, nuts etc. There is no harm in buying extra stuff as it doesn’t get spoiled. You can even try to buy cheap sparkling alcoholic glasses online.
If you don’t have enough glasses to serve different drinks then don’t hesitate to invest on buying some sparkling glasses. Moreover, once you decide on the drinks you will be serving to the guests, it’s essential to get all the ingredients to avoid any last minute hassle.
Avoid Wastage
Based on the number of guests you have invited you can plan the quantity of the food item. The idea is to prevent any food wastage.
Ice Ice Baby
Plenty of ice is quite compulsory for every drink. Keep the ice handy and broken for your guests.
COCKATIL DRESSING
Love To Decorate Cocktail Glasses
It’s lovely to see an appealing cocktail dressing. I personally put an extra effort to dress up cocktail glasses. Some of my favorite options are lemon, olives, cherries, lime peal, sliced fruits, paper umbrella etc. The key lies in choosing the right choice; it needs to blend with the drink.
Don’t Hesitate To Experiment A New Recipe
Uniqueness add spice to any party, you will always find some basic food items at all the cocktail parties. How about adding a new slice of touch to the food segment. Mostly, people feel reluctant to try out new stuff at a party; but I don’t. I find it as an opportunity to give my best. I choose my ingredients carefully…I innovate.. and then I just wait for the guests feedback.
I make sure to offer a bit to my husband before serving it in front of my guests. Yeah I play it safe! Once my husband gives a go ahead it means it’s just perfect! ( he is my favorite critic argh!)
Clean Up Your Place And Give It A Subtle Look
After you finish cooking now is the time to clean up the place. I am very particular about keeping my place clean, particularly when I am inviting guests for a party. At least, this way my home gets clean from inside out. The refrigerator, the furniture, the floor and the kitchen needs extra consideration.
I prefer simple decor ideas over the loud one, light up some beautiful and aromatic candles of different colors and shapes. I even love the idea of floating candles and rose petals. One thing that I never miss is to place a small center piece bowl of fresh flowers.
Choice Of Cocktail Outfit
It entirely depends upon the choice of color you have; the kind of cocktail dress you choose will expound the type of personality you have. The only factor that needs to be considered is don’t over or under dress. Most of us don’t have enough time to go out and shop, that’s why I love to shop online, you will have a great range of sexy cocktail dresses at affordable prices.
I hope some of these tips on how to plan a fun cocktail party will drive away the fear of throwing a cocktail party at your own house. Do suggest some of the tips that you would like to share with us.
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Sun, January 23 2011 » Fun Time » 1 Comment
What Women Really Want
I love clothes. I can’t control myself. I have a huge fetish for shoes and clothes and make-up. I’m the kind of person who doesn’t like to wear things over and over again …
It’s a fact – 95% women also share the same obsession (other 5% don’t exist they are nuns;)
I personally love subtle make – up, I am not a lover of loud make up, I really can’t wear red lipstick or red nail paint. I have great fondness for lip gloss and mascara. If you think like me then stay put and be with me for a few minutes. I will share my secret of how to prevent lipstick from fading away too quickly. Earlier I used to struggle a lot to maintain my lipstick even for a few hours, would hate to take out the lipstick and apply in the middle of the conversation! No matter you are a working woman or a career woman it’s every woman’s need to know the make up tricks or tips.
Dab Dab Dab
This trick really works, pat little foundation gently over your lips, the foundation will make the lip color stick to your lip for a longer time.
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Sat, January 15 2011 » Top Celebrities, fashion » No Comments
