If you can afford a prostitute, you can afford a housekeeper!
Yeah sounds interesting! Cindy Crawford has a perfect advice for cheating husbands who look for prostitutes to satisfy their never ending sexual desires!!!!!!!!!!!
She referred to those women who have to manage their household stuff with their professional life. They end up getting exhausted and hence they show less interest in their personal lives!
BUT HOLD ON! If the husband is well aware of the fact that his wife gets eXhausted because of overload of work and don’t show interest in fulfilling their sexual desires then does that mean they will look for prostitutes to satisfy their carnal desires??? That’s completely ridiculous! Instead of helping your wife in sharing her workload he would look out for prostitutes to satisfy his desires?
That makes me recall one statement which this guy made referring to the same kind of situation. He said “ I had various flicks but never ever paid to have sex and will never do that in the future” Doesn’t it hurt man’s ego to literally pay women for having sex?
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This is a very clear situation and besides a complicated also. Our most of the day to day problems are related to this issue. I am surprised how one can repeatedly see only one side of the story whereas on the contrary there are always two sides of the coin. As we all know being every human a unique entity his hierarchy of priorities and the combination of needs is also unique. What makes him live with others is his degree of compatibility and adaptability and the deciding factor why one is a decent guy and other is not.
The situation and the reaction would depend on three cases:
Case One: Where the wife is doing more work and gets exhausted. It happens in most of the cases because it’s a corporate world and rarely makes any difference to the gender. The reason could be either she loves her work and want to achieve some thing great at the cost of her relations and works beyond her physical capabilities or the nature of the job is like this which leaves her exhausted. Suppose the reason is later one the husband must understand its importance he must appreciate for her contribution and must come forward to help his wife. If the reason is the former one it is obvious that she is having her style of life and she has some goals which she has to achieve on the cost of ignoring her husband.
Now the husband has two options the one is: to talk to her about his emotional and sexual (We must respect the natural desires by not calling it carnal) needs and the way of their fulfillment. If both the partners are mature it could be more of emotional needs rather than sexual, just patting over the head of husband while sleeping provides a soothing loving and affectionate effect on the relations. If this option works fine, if it doesn’t (Most of the time it wont work in Indian environment) the husband gets frustrated and fights for the attention he deserves from his wife and starts finding fault or get flares up on trivial issues, which I have witnessed the foremost reason in almost 90 % of the couples who have the problem of not respecting each other or who have the tendency to disgrace their spouse publicly.
Now the husband makes a big hue and cry over this matter because he is honest and loves his wife and does not want to loose her, he cries for the attention.
Does it happen that we fight or abuse to a vendor who is not attending us, don’t we simply move to other vendor who recognizes us who greets us who values us over the previous one. Yes we all do so. Now why to fight with ones own wife for attention and her valuable time. The answer is simple; the husband does not want to fulfill these requirements from any other source. I appreciate him who fights for attention and love from his or her spouse. It is to be understood by the wife that her husband needs her and he has no other alternative but it is only and only her which is driving him crazy. Despite this if wife keeps herself exhausted I would say either she is emotionless or she is having some other means.
Second option left to the husband is he should find the other ways to fulfill his desires without affecting their life and that too after making all efforts mentioned above by the husband. I don’t think she would mind him going to another woman (please mind I am talking about another lawful relation). It will depend on the person to person if he wants a temporary arrangement or a permanent one, because she is already obsessed with the work and least bothered so she does not have the right to blame and confiscate the husband. In fact this is the only other option left for the ailing husband. She is having clear goals without thinking about anybody and vice versa that anybody also have the right to have the choices.
Case Two: where husband and wife both get exhausted. Lesser possibility of these kinds of issues. Need not explanation.
Case Three: where husband is over burdened with work and exhausts: This is wife’s turn to fight for her husband attention as what has happened in the case one.
There are plenty of examples where wives cheat their husband in the name of not being attended by their husbands. In a very sophisticated gym I know, there are many married ladies who join only to pick some nice guys for enjoyment even lesser then the age of their own sons, just because their husbands are serving on the borders or away on the ships or out on a business tour. And my dear….. pity on those these gentle husbands they don’t even know what happens in their absence. They continuously try to find out their values in their family and busy in carving out a niche for themselves in their sweet hearts, and being blamed for resorting to other means for none of their fault…………
I appreciate your expression and agree with you also.
Keep Writing.
Rajeev Kumar
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I agree to Dks ,
wonderful way of analyzing and wrting, the expressions and the cases are very practical….
keep writing
I agree to you completely, dks, very powerful expressions, justified commentes,:) looking forward you writing some more, keep it up.