In my opinion the most important tool for any relationship is “TRUST” . Once you are in a relationship, you promise to share your happiness and sorrows with each other but how many of us are comfortable in sharing their privacy?
If you are in a relationship then often you are asked to tell the password of your email accounts or bank accounts. The very question is do you need to share your passwords to prove your commitment towards your partner. The very question that pops up on my mind Is What causes the need to demand your partner to disclose his/her passwords? Is it a matter of your lack of faith on your partner? Or it’s a sign of insecurity towards your partner?
Some people question that why do couples who are committed or are married needs to be under surveillance all the time. Some people demand space before and after getting into a relationship, if you fall in the same category then obviously you will have issues in sharing your passwords with your partner. Does that mean your love is not enough? Does it complicates the relationship?
Personally speaking there should not be any hesitation in sharing your passwords with your partner. The very basic criteria to feel comfortable in sharing your passwords depends upon how strong your relationship is. If you trust your partner and know that he/she will never ever misuse the money or won’t ever play with your email accounts then it’s perfectly fine to share your passwords.
What’s your take on it?
Whenever you find men cheating on their wives or girlfriends you tend to question who’s fault is it anyway? You can’t really pass a judgment on anyone until and unless you are well aware of the inside story. Every day you read about celebrities betraying their partners. All of us love to read about any personal information of top celebrities , politicians or big business tycoons . The fact remains most of us don’t really give a damn about their wives or girlfriends who have been betrayed. How does it really affect us?
Stories of Tiger Woods Betrayal , Ronnie Wood cheating his wife after 24 years of marriage and hooking up with a 21 year old Russian girl. Latest news of Sandra Bullock’s Husband extramarital affair with a tattoo model and how can you forget Mel Gibson’s extramarital affairs . For a matter of fact the stories of betrayals are endless. Needless to say, you will find more men cheating on their wives and girlfriends and vice versa. In no ways I am defending women! But if you see the stats then it’s quite evident that men tend to cheat on their partners are far more.
When women accuse the new love of their man then I find it a bit weird. Why women are hounding the other “girl in the picture”? Is your husband a dead brain that he doesn’t know how to control his emotions? Instead of accusing the other girl for enticing their husbands to leave their wives?!!!
The reason why I am writing an article on this topic is because today I was reading a article where wives literally pay other women to sleep with their husbands. The woman will find out on the request of the wives or girlfriends to what extent their husbands or boyfriends will go. These women are hired by detectives and get paid!
Some people are accusing “honey trappers ” for entrapment. Again I totally disagree with it! If your husband is loyal to you then no matter what happens your husband will not get trapped in any kind of sexual temptation . Why don’t you expect your husband to say “No” to any sort of sexual encounter??
There is one more series same as that of “Cheaters ”. First they keep a watch on the suspect to ascertain if the suspect is seeing someone else. Later an agent approaches the “Suspect” in a friendly way. And if the person shows interest, then the agent pursues it further to find out to what extent the man or the woman can go!!
I find it quite interesting! Though I will never hire a honey trapper to hit on my husband; in no way I suspect the loyalty of my husband. In case you think your relation is not working then it’s better to talk it out or hire a relationship counselor . Later, if you think your relationship hasn’t worked out then “Honey trapper” will definitely give answers to your questions.
Till then don’t monitor your husbands let them free. Sooner or later if they are going to make the “Cardinal Sin” you need to be smart enough to CATCH THEM!
Do men in power easily get away after cheating on their wives ?
Do “we the people” rate our politicians based on their personal or professional lives?
My Take On It :-
I personally don’t really give a shit on what these politicians are up to in their personal lives– It’s not about why politicians cheat ? They cheat almost for the same reason like anyone else does. Point here is why men cheat or why women cheat ?
Recently, I read the news about one more politician cheating on his wife.
Jenny Sanford, wife of South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford , speaks about her husband’s recent affair admission.
She says “South Carolina first lady Jenny Sanford says her husband’s affair with an Argentine woman broke a trust that he must earn back — first from his family, then his constituents”
Why do some women/men give a second chance to their partners?
Ø To save the marriage ?
Ø Or to get regular financial support?
Ø For the sake of their kids?
Ø Or because they are not strong enough to walk out of the relationship and lead a new life?
Ø Or because they feel threatened from their partners and don’t speak out against them and continues enduring the pain of betrayal in the relationship ?
Every relationship requires hell lot of effort to gain trust for each other. Then how can anyone put that on stake for just few minutes of pleasure?
