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Why men cheat ?” Nobody can figure

So I get to know one more incident of a celebrity cheating on his wife. Great Great !

After witnessing Ronnie Wood romancing with his daughter’s age girl, then Tiger woods admitting to infidelity . And now the media has recently discovered John Terry’s extra marital affair . The media has enjoyed their share of publicizing every bit of detail related to their affairs .Even after the court introduced injunction, where the media is not allowed to report any information regarding any kind of particular topic, still the public is aware of the inside information regarding John terry’s extra marital affair.

The majority of men will have a list of excuses where they will justify their infidelity. No matter how many excuses men or women give for cheating on their partners, still you can’t really accuse your partner for your own actions. The most common perception which majorities of the people have is men cheat to spice up their sex life . On the contrary, the research says that men usually cheat because they don’t feel valued in their relationship. Therefore, they search for someone who appreciates them a lot more in comparison to their existing partner.

I completely disagree with this excuse. If a man wants to have an extra marital affair then no matter how much happy his wife/girl friend makes him still he would look for some thrill outside the marriage. The main reason for men cheating on their partners is the boredom. Most of the couples get bored in the relationship , so they look for a change outside their relationship. The moment you realize that your relationship has lost the charm, you tend to get bored.

In my perception the only factor that binds the relationship is trust, respect, love, care and affection - Romance comes later! No relationship can be sustained just based on romance. In order to rebuild your relationship with zest you require patience and an effort to know why your relationship has become so dull. The foremost step to bridge the gap in a relationship is to GAIN TRUST of each other. From thereon, put an attempt to understand your partner.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic’s Notebook , 1966

• Isn’t it funny on how aging men are always looking for young women to re- evoke their sexual desires. Maybe it’s a sign that even Viagra can’t do it’s work! No matter you get to sleep with how many young women but at the end of the day you still look like the girl’s grandfather . There can’t be any explanation of justifying your relationship, when it comes to young women getting hooked with older men ( Way older ) and vice versa. In 99.9% cases like these either of the party is tremendously rich. It’s pretty evident on what can be the motive behind cavorting with a partner of your kid’s age.

• The fact which is more heartbreaking is the person who goes through the betrayal in the relationship. The very live example is the recent story of Ronnie Wood (an English rock guitarist and bassist best known as a member of The Rolling Stones and Faces). He has broken his 23 years old marriage with Jo Wood for a 19 years old Russian girl. How painful it can get for any women who raised the kids, taken care of the family and always supported his husband in all the rough times? For the men who is now running after a girl who is of his daughter’s age? I am sure there are hundreds of celebrities and common people who put everything on stake for what? for rekindling their sexual life.

  Ronnie wood has always struggled with drugs and alcohol addiction. So what?
  

• He is not the first person or a celebrity who has gone overboard with his success. I find it extremely exasperating on how people justify their actions. In today’s fast pace life each one of us is going through some or the other kind of struggle. Indeed life will throw challenges on you and there will be times when you will be a victim of depression, stress, alcohol or drugs. But that doesn’t mean that you defend your actions by hurting your loved ones.

• At the age of 61 Ronnie should be guiding his children on how to lead a fulfilling life instead of his kids running after him in pubs to keep him away from an overdose of alcohol. Needless to say, you will only find handful of celebrities who have become famous and still maintain their humble nature towards their friends, family, society and their fans.