Adventure Ride For Aging Men

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young women

  • Isn’t it funny on how aging men are always looking for young women to re- evoke their sexual desires. Maybe it’s a sign that even Viagra can’t do it’s work! No matter you get to sleep with how many young women but at the end of the day you still look like the girl’s grandfather . There can’t be any explanation of justifying your relationship, when it comes to young women getting hooked with older men ( Way older ) and vice versa. In 99.9% cases like these either of the party is tremendously rich. It’s pretty evident on what can be the motive behind cavorting with a partner of your kid’s age.

  • The fact which is more heartbreaking is the person who goes through the betrayal in the relationship. The very live example is the recent story of Ronnie Wood (an English rock guitarist and bassist best known as a member of The Rolling Stones and Faces). He has broken his 23 years old marriage with Jo Wood for a 19 years old Russian girl. How painful it can get for any women who raised the kids, taken care of the family and always supported his husband in all the rough times? For the men who is now running after a girl who is of his daughter’s age? I am sure there are hundreds of celebrities and common people who put everything on stake for what? for rekindling their sexual life.


    Ronnie wood has always struggled with drugs and alcohol addiction. So what?

  • He is not the first person or a celebrity who has gone overboard with his success. I find it extremely exasperating on how people justify their actions. In today’s fast pace life each one of us is going through some or the other kind of struggle. Indeed life will throw challenges on you and there will be times when you will be a victim of depression, stress, alcohol or drugs. But that doesn’t mean that you defend your actions by hurting your loved ones.

  • At the age of 61 Ronnie should be guiding his children on how to lead a fulfilling life instead of his kids running after him in pubs to keep him away from an overdose of alcohol. Needless to say, you will only find handful of celebrities who have become famous and still maintain their humble nature towards their friends, family, society and their fans.

Why Do We Sometimes Hate Ourselves?

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Loneliness is killing me from within

I am sure that this “topic” will sound “bizarre” to some of the readers. Personally speaking “Psychology” is one of my favorite areas of interest. The title is directly connected to:-

  1. Depression
  2. Loneliness
  3. Stress
  4. Anger
  5. Alcoholic
  6. Chain Smoker
  7. Drug Addiction
  8. And many more emotional setbacks.

Mostly, those people who don’t admire themselves tend to have various emotional problems. Some of the main reasons of an individual “hating themselves” are:-

  1. Being let down by the society
  2. Injustice
  3. Criticism
  4. Lack of Emotional Attachment
  5. Domestic Violence
  6. Childhood Abuse
  7. Sexual Abuse
  8. Lack of self esteem
  9. Neglected by the society
  10. Rejection

  • In order to lead a blissful life, it’s very important to have self – love. You can’t gain the love of others if you lack self love. First you need to be at peace with yourself then only you can gain peace with others.
  • Needless to say, introspection is the answer to all your questions. It will allow you to help yourself by allowing you to overcome all the negative emotions which you have build against yourself.
  • Write down all the memories, decisions, individuals and incidents that make you feel inferior of yourself.
  • Don’t doubt your true ability to be a strong person and assemble all the strong attributes of your personality.
  • Don’t set unrealistic standards for yourself. If you think you have made certain wrong decisions in life then try to self – empathize. Nobody is perfect! Even the most influential people on this earth have made mistakes in life.

  • Don’t let your past bad decisions hinder your future growth. Accept all your mistakes and learn a lesson from every mistake you commit.
  • There are many people who have suffered from some kind of abuse in their lives. Indeed it’s tormenting to go through an emotional abuse.
  • If you think you should have apposed the oppressor in the past then its better late than never. Never endure ay kind of abuse no matter in which form it is targeted on you.
  • Have you missed any opportunities in the past and didn’t give your best effort? I am sure it hurts and sometimes we do curse ourselves for not utilizing an opportunity in the best possible way.
  • I have noticed many people discussing about their past regrets and blaming themselves. This way they become a victim of depression but they are also obliterating their present and the future.
  • Many times I have seen people blaming their cultural or family background for not being successful in their lives. I know the family values and guidance counts a lot in shaping an individual. But after a while it’s our actions and decisions that can either “make us” or “break us”.
  • Therefore, it’s alright if you have not received the required assistance in the past. You can now be “self-motivated” and excel in your life. It’s quite fulfilling to be “On Your Own”

Powerful Self Improvement Tips To Be Successful

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Powerful self improvement tips that can change your perspective towards life and help you accomplish your goals and give you a complete peace of mind.

The most important factor for an individual’s well being is to gain peace. In order to do that you need to practice introspection.

  • Once you gain respect for yourself then you start creating self love. Needless to say, you will discover various phases in your life which you wish you could forget or eliminate from your memory. But you find it hard to brush off certain phases of your life which you tend to detest.
  • It could be anything – you mistreating your spouse or children, not giving your best in your academics, not working hard enough in the past, being a victim of sexual abuse or domestic violence or any possible act which you despise.
  • It’s easy to sit back and trap your mind with all those moments which haunts you. Due to this millions of people become a victim of depression and have lack of self confident and it may lead to  other health related problems. As a result you loose focus in your life and possibly it will result in another disgraceful phase of your life, which will hinder your self growth.
  • It’s quite simple to see successful people around and give a round of applause for their achievements. Always remember one rule of your life – If you want to achieve your goals then you need to be TOUGH. Stop wasting your time in doing useless things which won’t take you towards your goals. Learn the art of time management.
  • Tell yourself that no matter what kind of failures I have experienced in my life. There is always another chance to bounce back and be back in the race of life. Bestow yourself with self motivation and confidence.
  • Your negative emotions will curb your confidence but if you challenge yourself to deal with negative emotions then sooner or later you will win over all your fears, anguish, and depressive state of mind.
  • I am writing this article based on my life. There were times when I used to treat myself “Worthless”. It had taken me some time to win over my fears, disappointments and regrets of my life. Certainly, it’s not that easy as it sounds. But life is more interesting when you challenge yourself.
  • Firstly, dedicate your life towards creating your own identity. The only cure of Depression is to transform your life for the betterment of your self being. Never consider your life to be hopeless. Your life is in your hands, either you can excel in life or you can live in isolation. So what have you decided?


Do share your opinions about how you treat your life.