07 JunLost Touch But Still Think About Them?

friendship

Sometimes, I wonder it’s not that why we loose touch with our friends it’s just that with time as we grow – we realize who are our true friends and maintain our friendship with only “few and true”ones. Thankfully, I do have “one” friend with whom I can laugh or cry and share any of my personal stuff and be rest assured I am in good hands. Moreover, it’s not at all about for how many years you know each other, it’s all about how strong your friendship is. And no matter how many times you fight with each other, still after a while; somehow you get back to each other.

All of us go through ups and down, this is the time when god tells you who are your true friends. The one who offers you guidance and unconditional support in times when nobody is there with you.
In the journey of life we keep some friends forever and with others we loose touch. But do we wonder why and how it happens? I sometime introspect the ways we move on with our lives and forget our school friends, college friends and then when we start working we loose touch with our colleagues.

You call each other once in a while and then the number of calls drastically reduce. And then we just call each other only if we need favors; otherwise we end up totally being out of touch. And then one fine day we meet some old lost friend face to face. Our first expression is “Hey you it’s been a long time” you give an excuse of loosing the contact info. To end up the whole conversation you invite each other just for pure formality sake to visit them sometime.

How many of us remember someone deep down from the past and have lost touch with them. Do you now strive to establish contacts again? I do have handful of people I wonder sometimes, but I don’t really know how to reach out to them. Even after all my attempts to search them online on some of the most popular social websites, still all my efforts go in vain. If you think you have lost some of your precious friends then do make an effort to find them, may be you will get lucky this time.

Here is some of my favorite friendship quotes:-

“A real friend does not judge or want to be judged! their just a friend when in need! to listen, give advice, and if you fall they will be the first to be there to pick you up and go “what were you thinking, why didn’t you call? , now let me help you”
” I have learned that if you want to try and find a real friend loose your job and have no money and watch your “FRIENDS” disappear!! The ones that are left and still by your side are the only true friends you will ever have”

“Real friends are not the ones that bail you out of trouble, and lecture you about what you have done. They are the ones setting by your side, in trouble with you and laughing about what has just happened”

“From The Time… We Were Born,We Had Friends…Family Members Count as Friends,not Family Members but So Close That They Seem Like Family Members….”Your True Friends” Will Always Be There For You… “From Thick Or Thin”….”No Matter What The Situation Is”…If A Person Chooses To Be Around When You Are Going through A Difficult Time…”They Are Your True Friend”… And If I They Choose To Turn Their Head The Other Way…”They Are Not Your True Friend”…Most Of The Time In Need A Person Knows Who Their “True Friends” Are !!”

2 Responses to “Lost Touch But Still Think About Them?”

  1. hubby says:

    Well I guess one has to be a very lucky to have really good friends. It is the way of the world that only the ones with the riches seem to have the friendships. But friendship is not only about being there in bad times, I think it shoud also be about celebrating the good times. People get jealous when the “friends” are successful and move on. But I think the concept of friends is quite judgemental to start with. It is human nature to connect with others but pass judgement behind their backs. Therefore I sometimes wonder that do we really need friends? People move on becuse they want better things in life, they want change. They leave people behind. And like you rightly said you connect only when you need something. So lets just be honest and say a friend is who helps out but expects things in return. That is also human.
    One last thing, perhaps in my opinion only your wife or husband can be called as a friend. My wife was not my family before she met me; there had to be some sort of friendship before marriage, a sort of likeness. And now that she is there with you or you with her – perhaps it is a good idea to call her your true freind.

  2. BUBLOO says:

    THIS IS SIMPLE. POOJA TRUE FRIENDS NEVER EVER LOST TOUCH , IF THEY LOST TOUCH WITH EACH OTHER THEY ARE NOT YOURS TRUE FRIENDS . FRIENDSHIP IS LOVE WITH UNDERSTANDING , IF THERE IS NO UNDERSTANDING THERE IS NO FRIENDSHIP. A GOOD FRIEND IS HARD TO FIND , HARD TO LOSE AND IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET. HERE ARE SOME MINE FAVOURITE FRIENDSHIP QUOTES ——

    A friend can tell you things you don’t want to tell yourself.

    A true friend is the one who knows more about you than yourself and still loves you>

    “A friend worth your tears, will never make you cry.”

    ” A friend is someone who sticks (hangs) to you at all times, and a friend is someone who you trust….”

    A true friend thinks of you when all others are thinking of themselves

RSS feed for comments on this post.

Leave a Reply